I mean I've always wanted to have intercourse or be with a man but I don't want to act like a dweeb and not know what to do. I mean when he asked me. I just said yeah and then freeked out when I got home. I don't know how to do any part of it. I mean yeah everyone basically knows the basics. but if you have any tips. things that made you more irisistable or anything! please...
I need help. I mean I want to please him. But I also want to enjoy this myself.
2006-07-06 11:58:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I mean I've always wanted to have intercourse or be with a man but I don't want to act like a dweeb and not know what to do. I mean when he asked me. I just said yeah and then freeked out when I got home. I don't know how to do any part of it. I mean yeah everyone basically knows the basics. but if you have any tips. things that made you more irisistable or anything! please...
I need help. I mean I want to please him. But I also want to enjoy this myself.
Ohh and I am not too young I just got out of highschool. But haven't been around a heap of people my age. and the ones I have been around think that sex and stuff is wrong and should be forbidden. So you can see why I have no clue where to start.
2006-07-06 12:05:29 · update #1
I home school my daughter, and I'm facing the same issue right now, just from a parent's point of view.
I hope you give yourself more time, but if not you need someone (in person) around you to talk to, not just someone from yahoo. This is toooo important to take lightly, and your decision may affect your whole life.
Do you have any older friends or relatives you can talk to about this, anyone at all?
I feel for you, because the temptation is real...just don't forget to use your head and not let hormones rule you...good luck.
2006-07-06 12:06:56 · answer #1 · answered by JC 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all how old are you? Second, is this really the man you want to be your first? Remember that the first person you have sex with will be the one that you remember above all others. Also sex leads to many things that are undesirable such as STD's, AIDS, and pregnancy (undesirable depending on the situation and the strength of the relationship). If you are still being home schooled I am going to assume you are still a teenager, your hormones are on high and that will many times lead to a sexual encounter teenagers are not prepared emotionally for. My suggestion is to talk to a trusted adult like a parent, pastor, or relative. I hope this helps.
2006-07-06 19:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by atbaba2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, how long have you know the guy? If you were trying not to freak out when he asked you, that usually means you haven't know him that long and maybe it's not that great of an idea. And you'll want to make sure he's not just using you. Every time you have sex with someone you give then a little part of yourself, so be careful who you give yourself too.
2006-07-09 16:55:07 · answer #3 · answered by Jen H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't av to sleep wiit him.Sum1 dat asks only for sex 4rm you, u shld know he doesn't mean gud.
He will eventually break ur heart which is more painful.
Don't let him take advantage of you.
If you eventually av sex wit him though, make sure he wears protection.
2006-07-06 19:04:56 · answer #4 · answered by Deejay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first how old are you? if your still being homeschool have your parents teach you health class. if u "graduated" let him be on top and let him do most of the work for now, once u get used to him you cacn be on top which will give u a better chance to "Orgasm" good luck and make sure he has a condom on!
2006-07-06 19:04:24 · answer #5 · answered by stewiegrif27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to be nervous just because this is your first time, everything will come naturally... just remember that along with having sex comes responsibility... wrap it up and don't be heart broken if he is one of these jerks that will sleep with you and then don't call...
2006-07-06 19:06:14 · answer #6 · answered by tweeterbird73 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just make sure to relax and go slow with it so that if you need to back out you still have time and foreplay is a must if you both want to enjoy it if its also your first time let him know don't rush anything.
2006-07-06 19:14:08 · answer #7 · answered by taz671562003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't do it just because he wants to and I feel the urge to sometimes. I would wait until I met "the one," then it will all come naturally. Your bodies will just flow together.
2006-07-06 19:08:24 · answer #8 · answered by Brizy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My simple easy to follow advice is
Have lots of foreplay.
2006-07-06 19:02:22 · answer #9 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well let me tell you he is going to be pleased because you are a virgin. so don't worry there, If he doesn't know you are a virgin you better tell him because you are going to bleed and it is going to hurt.
It gets better. wear protection and try to do it with a guy who is going to be sympethetic to your needs as a virgin
2006-07-06 19:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by dido45dido 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋