It seems to me that all he ever wants to do is have sex, or kiss me, and he's always got his hands on me. Is he just using me for sex, or is he really into me?
2006-07-06 11:57:30 · 35 answers · asked by Chrystal E 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, is he your boyfriend? maybe he likes you and is expressing it through physical attention.
or maybe he's a douche.
2006-07-06 11:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by Lydia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him that. Look into his eyes to find out the truth. If you all don't do anything other than sex or that is the only time he calls you is to have sex, then chances are that is using you. but if you both have a strong sexual attraction most men use that as form of expressing their feelings and emotions because deep sown men are as afraid of rejection as women are. And there is always the motto if it ain't broke don't fix it. He may be waitng on you to make the "serious" move and express your feelings with words. But never put yourself in a situation that you are not happy in just to please someone else, because you are the one missing out, and could possibly end up hurt.
2006-07-06 12:03:57 · answer #2 · answered by laalaapeach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You answered your own question when you said "all he ever wants to do is have sex, or kiss me, and he's always got his hands on me"
2006-07-06 12:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by missdragontat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL!!! YAH!!! so obvious most guys usually date a girl just to play with and hav sex with i know i do lolz this is because im not really ready to get married so we just play around unless ur both like 28 or sumthing then that might b serious but if both of you are young most likely hes just playing around with you specially with the descriptions ur giving lolz
2006-07-06 12:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes using u
2006-07-06 12:00:17 · answer #5 · answered by The Girl With The Answers 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like hes using you think about this do you two ever just talk does he tell you he cares about you actions speak louder than words and right now his actions tell me he wants sex and only sex
2006-07-06 12:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by jcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you would like to stop having sex, petting, or having "his hands on" you for a short amount of time (2 weeks to a month) and you can "date" during that time. You can go to dinner, cook together, go to movies, etc. Then see if he sticks around during that time. Good luck.
2006-07-06 12:04:00 · answer #7 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how old he is most likely hes using you. Ask him questions about a long term relationship. Ask him what if you got pregnant what would he do? Would he take you out on a date and pay your way or does he only want to be alone with you? Based on his answers I'm sure you'll figure it out
2006-07-06 12:03:33 · answer #8 · answered by shdw71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're just really hot. You make him want to have sex with you just by being you. You're just going out with someone who wants lots of sex, decide if you think that's good or bad.
2006-07-06 12:00:32 · answer #9 · answered by JoeIQ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is almost always on a guy's mind. It would help if you offered some information about how he is to you besides that.
If he just has you around when he wants to get laid and isn't around at all besides that then yes, he is using you.
2006-07-06 12:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by lc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide if this guy really cares for you ! Ask yourself, do I enjoy being with him, does he make me feel good about myself or is he as you seem to relate to us, actually in this relationship for selfish reasons? Please let us know of your decision! You will find that there are still a few men who enjoy the company of a Lady without having to have their wants fulfilled!
2006-07-06 12:07:36 · answer #11 · answered by dewmansince61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋