2006-07-06 11:50:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U really don't know because everything could be so good at the beginning and once u settle down he could change all of a sudden. Or maybe the opposite just don't move at fast pace to settle down!!!!
2006-07-06 11:57:14 · answer #1 · answered by yanahs_123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always ask myself this same question (I'm about to get married) and the answer is usually "never". No one really knows who is right and who isn't. If there is a doubt in your mind about anything (at all!) you will always have regret.
My mom always tells me that i should not be with the one that i can live with (because we learn to deal with many people) but be with the one that i cant be without (where you cant imagine a day without them in your life).
There is always your own personal preference as well. What do you look for, where is your life headed, will this person bring you down or support you?
Good luck
2006-07-06 19:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by sparkydula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well go to a nice private place with out alot of noise and tell them ow you feel ..it may not be easy..but take it a step at a time..The other answer the other posted is very wrong..what woul they know..cause they are only teens or young boys..I'm a mom and it is best to try to sit down and talk about it to that person you care about
2006-07-06 18:55:55 · answer #3 · answered by Spice M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of all, you have to know the difference between love and longing, yearning and enjoying, love and obsession, having a grat passion and living a good life and going out to dinner and being out to lunch. Always know that comfortable, cozy, and boring, and mundane are all part of a normal life and a normal relationship; these are the kinds of adjectives you want in your life. 2. Dramatic, agonizing, tortured, convoluted, irreconcilable, horrific, and obsessive are words that belong on the jacket of a novel that you carry to the beach; you don't want to have these adjectives describe you life.
2006-07-06 19:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by Ivy C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just do.
You realize you love them enough to want to do dishes together and wake up in the morning to them and you know the day is not as good as when you have seen or spoken to them. You realize marriage isn't just a paper but, more than that. You can't explain it. You can't imagine being happier with anyone else- realisticly...
You feel it in your fingers and your toes and your heart and your mind and your body all the same, you smile when you think about them without realizing it, you heart beats their name, you fall asleep thinking about them and wake up thinking about them. You think about the things you want to do together. the list goes on but, you may feel it a bit differently than I do....
Love songs seem to have more meaning, romantic movies seem nicer, the world seems brighter, colors are more lovely even on a bad day you each think the other is beautiful....
2006-07-06 18:56:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
.true love is real.and my answer is that when you really love someone you are faithful to them.it does not matter how many guys or girls want to have sex with you, love is better than one night stands,and you are able to say no to that.and i would pray and ask god if that's the person he has made for you to spend the rest of you life with.one thing to remember is both of you have to love god or not it will not work out.with god's help everything works out just trust in him.
2006-07-12 10:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by texas71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try 2 describe the love u feel for the guy if ur able 2 describe this love n know that thatst the way u do feel then ur not in love because love cannot be described in words
2006-07-06 18:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by RJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cant imaging having a family with anyone else. when you are lost without that person. when you are able to practically read eachother's minds just because you know eachother so well.
2006-07-06 18:53:48 · answer #8 · answered by Jazillian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just know. Everything will click into place. You will think nothing gets better.
(Then it will all go to hell in a handbasket)
2006-07-06 18:54:00 · answer #9 · answered by badwolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you cant imagine being or even want to be with anyone else in the world . Ever.
2006-07-06 18:53:27 · answer #10 · answered by Carrie Deane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋