What do you think?

Question

A while back, I was driving towards the "exit" of my Apt complex when this girl who works at the Front Office of the Apt came speeding towards the exit as well. We both seen eachother and since she had the right of way, I slowed down and stopped to let her right of way to "exit". The thing was at the same time I slowed to make a stop the girl thought that I was going to "hit" her and not sure why but she became very angry towards me. The thing is I get crappy service from the same girl whenever I need to go pick up a package I ordered from Amazon or even from Ebay. What's her problem anyways? Does she have a grudge against me? or Is she still angry from the incident we had a while back? or Is she jealous? or Is she just plain stupid or What do you guys think? She won't smile at me, won't help me get my packages from the closet in their backroom, she always has a bad attitude with me and whenever another tenant walks in to get their packages the girl smiles at him/her and help tthem out

Also, I have forgetten about the incident since that happened about 4 months ago, but the girl likes to drill it in my face and treats me badly.

Also, you all think I should speak to her Supervisor? Cause, I pay rent and it's somewhat expensive and I'd rather deal with respecful, friendly staff at the Front Office than getting horrible treatments from this one individual. There has to be one horrible individual. Why is that? Hmm ..

Answer 1

It sounds like she doesn't like you. It might stem from the parking lot incident, although perhaps it could be something else - perhaps she decided she didn't like you even before then. She might not like you personally (bad experience) or she just might not like people of your type (she might be prejudiced against your race, color, gender, age, appearance, etc.)

I would let it go. If her service to you as the officeperson for getting packages and such is rude, perhaps inform the manager of your apartment complex when she is not around that you have experienced impoliteness from her. If you have any neighbors that have also been poorly treated by her, you could suggest that they also complain to the management. If you think her behavior to you is a sign of prejudice on her part, definitely let the manager know. Discrimination in housing is against the law, and perhaps even racially-motivated poor service might be a part of that.

I wouldn't let it bother you - the world is too big to worry about one person who doesn't like you, especially since in a few years, chances are, you might be living in a different apartment complex, or she'll have moved to a different job.

Answer 2

Yes, talk to the management of the building! You are paying to be there- you deserve to be treated with respect. In the mean time, treat the girl the same way she treats you. When she sees that she cannot push you around, she will probably change her attitude.

Answer 3

Some people have grudges even if they dont know you. That's a bad way to live. Just ignore her. Dont worry about if she hates you or not. You are living your life. Dont used any energy on a person who doesnt deserve your energy.

Answer 4

Complain to management. I manage an apartment building and I can tell you that most places won't tolerate an employee acting like that.

Answer 5

She is a Negative-B|tch and the problem is hers. Don't worry about it.

You be in charge and do what you should normally do as though she wer somebody else.

Answer 6

apparently she's a bi*tch. report her a*ss and get her fired. that'll change her tune real quick. put it this way, your rent pays her salary so if she ain't cutting it, complain and make an example of her. treat her the way she treats you and see how she likes it.

Answer 7

Report her. She sounds mentally unbalanced and it seems like you have tried hard for long enough to be civil with her. You shouldn't have to put up with being treated with such contempt. Report her for definite, I would!

(I don't think your question was too long to be "red" either - duh - some people, didn't they learn to spell?? "read"

Answer 8

Hey ... she's just an assh.le ... and she definately doesn't like you. Can you go at a different time and get a different clerk?

Answer 9

I'd definitely turn in a complaint.

Answer 10

i think you made this question too long to be red