2006-07-06 11:38:58 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take everything he ever gave you and everything that makes you think of him and burn it!
2006-07-06 11:39:58 · answer #1 · answered by answrwoman77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know things are very difficult for you now. I'm sorry about your break up, it sounds like you really cared about him. I want to say I'm really proud of you . Why ? You realize this is a dead end relationship, if he truly loved you why did he feel he had to control you? That's what parents and grandparents, aunts, uncles,brothers, sisters, teacher, are for. Even then its to help you mature into the beautiful person you are today. Just remember some thing in life you can do without controlling boyfriends, two faced friends, and just drama in your life. With time things will get better give your self a chance and really think about what you want in a good relationship. Try this PRAY about your situation to GOD, give it a couple of days and see how you feel. Good luck I know you'll make the right decision. God bless you.
2006-07-06 12:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its gonna be hard at first. You have to try not to think about him so much. And realize that you are actually better off with out him. You don't have anyone to control you, so now you are able to do more. Be more active get some friends and do the things that you have been wanting to do but you never could because you always had someone telling you what you couldn't do. Now there are no stipulations. You are free. Enjoy life.
2006-07-06 11:44:46 · answer #3 · answered by ♫†☼☼♥Natasha♥☼☼†♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have you given this person so much power over you? You won't even admit to yourself that you could of done much more in the relationship to thwart his controlling behavior. Unless the guy was physically threatening you, you had opportunities to walk away from him, but didn't. Why? No one is going to define you, but you! No one is going to rule over you like some dictator unless you buy into their propaganda that they know what is best for you and the relationship. That's where the mind games begin. Count your blessings that somewhere along the road you eventually woke up and saw the "exit" signs. Move forward...if not you will end up in another relationship, giving all your power away, and then eventually wonder why it's happened all over again. Look outside the "box".
2006-07-06 12:00:56 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Mojo Jojo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gurl just realize how you felt when you had him if you really glad hes gone you could realize the difference in your life but since you still got a soft spot for him realize youve probadly been controlled by your parents all your youth life now you older do you want somebody still controlling you Sweetie i dont know about you but i sure in the world i wouldnt So if You Want Your Life Back the choice is yours he probadly waiting on you to comeback to him but youve got the controlling power in this situation.
2006-07-06 11:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself that you are a beautiful sexy independant girl and you dont need a man especially a controling one. Time heals everything try not to keep in touch with him that will only bring ba ck old emotions. Stop all contact and comunication with him and be strong. i know its hard Im in the same situation. Remember life goes on and trere are other fish in the sea.
2006-07-06 11:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by jcal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of all the stuff he gave you and realize that you are better off without him. It will take time to get over, how much time depends on other things in your life. You will get over him. You are better off now. Just remember make sure the next one isn't the same type of guy. If early in the relationship there are things you don't like they will amplify to bigger problems. Be picky. Good Luck
2006-07-06 11:43:06 · answer #7 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time heals all wounds. Start dating again and doing other things to forget about him. I had a controlling fiancee who I had to finally leave as she was no good for me. Realize that controlling people will never change unless they want to. Find someone who cares about what you think and wants to work as a team.
2006-07-06 11:42:19 · answer #8 · answered by alfredenuemann98195 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with your friends. Do things he would never let you do. Have fun! Good job getting rid of a controlling boyfriend I hope your next relationship goes alot better.
2006-07-06 11:41:12 · answer #9 · answered by impossible 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do not truly imagine you've gotten over your split in any respect. All aspects are wrapped up in a unmarried yet another. i do not imagine you could truly get over in simple terms one area... till its the actual area first.. as in not exhibiting your emotions. there is not any straight forward thanks to get over a split. i understand this is going to sound bizarre yet you truly favor to communicate with both one in all of your gal acquaintances, a gal sibling, or perchance even your mom or an aunt about it. all of us deals with wreck united statesin a unique way. some start up new pastimes... and obsess about different issues till they're over it adequate to bypass back to what you take advantage of to do. i'm not declaring you'll ever ignore it fantastically because it become your first boyfriend yet i'm positive there'll be a lot extra. some people start up specializing of their schoolwork or artwork artwork. some dig into some nutrition and watch a movie or cuddle up with a strong e book and some warm chocolate. in simple terms keep in mind.... you'll live to inform the tale inspite of the actuality that it will damage.
2016-10-14 04:51:51 · answer #10 · answered by curella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay busy. Dont spend too much time alone for a few weeks. Go out dancing, somewhere you're not going to run into him.
Remember even though you guys split, you will always care and love him. Just another life lesson. Many more.
2006-07-06 11:43:04 · answer #11 · answered by nurse33 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋