Hi,
Ok I think I have posted about this before but I'm still confused. As I have said before there was this guy back in college that I hardly got along with. By hardly I mean that we just exchanged hellos and maybe a couple of what's up. towards the end of the year we started saying more than just hello. The end of the year came and we said goodbye. I told him to keep in touch (I thought he wouldn't) and he kept his word. We have been exchanging e-mails, and all for the past two months (basically letting each other know what's been up). As a guy what would you think of this? Does he just want to be friends even though we barely knew each other in the end? Is he writing back just to be polite and out of habit? Or he might be looking foward to something else next yr?
2006-07-06 11:31:34 · 8 answers · asked by Puffgurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chris I:
What do you mean by personal? We just talk about what we have been up to. Does that count?
2006-07-06 20:11:46 · update #1
If he is a shy guy then this may be his fastest speed of approach. ;-) If he isn't so shy then he's keeping his options open. The question is really whether he is interested or if he's wondering if he can nail you.
Most guys are not hardwired to want to communicate and it isn't a habit most guys carry either. So I'm sure he's interested in *something*...back to the question above.
2006-07-06 11:51:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.it sounds like you two fancy each other and just didn't know how to bring it up..If you have been e-mailing back and forth for the past 2 months and school getting closer why not ask him out on a date. find out what he really feels. Being yourself and being strong in who you are is the best thing for you both. It's not against the rules to ask him out..so go for it
2006-07-06 18:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by ambulancechaser_99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is really hard to tell
many guys like to have female friends (I do!) without the need for any form of further relationship
but on the other hand many guys are shy and this is their attempt to get close enough and brave enough to go further
what do you want? - then just start to let him know - and hopefully it will fall into place
2006-07-06 18:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy has an interest with you. Its that during college days, you perhaps sent him wrong signals thats why he got confused. If you like him, then respond to his emails actively.
2006-07-06 18:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by cernad06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the subject matter, do you get personal? e-mail is easy to tell someone how you feel. if you get rejected its no big deal because no one is going to see or hear your reaction. if your interested in the guy,and you must be, quit being a weenie.
2006-07-06 18:44:25 · answer #5 · answered by chris l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rent "When Harry Met Sally". It sounds like this.
2006-07-06 18:34:34 · answer #6 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy seems to like you. If you like him too, respond to his emails and maybe by next year he will ask you out. If not, initiate it yourself :)
2006-07-06 18:45:03 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him !!!
Getting our opinion won't help you.
2006-07-06 18:46:59 · answer #8 · answered by j_kahanding 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋