Me and this guy have been with each other for about on and off for 3 months and he was with his wife the first month and not the 2nd month and no he is back with her and we haven't stopped seeing one another and he tells me he loves me and all of that. Well this past weekend it was like love at first sight and its like I am torn between wo great people. And I know if I stayed with the person who is married that I would just end up hurt in the long run I think that I would. But I could have a military man who would love me and give me anything that I would want but so would the other man but the thing is he already has kids and is married and I want kids and to get married the military man will give this to me
2006-07-06 11:28:49 · 18 answers · asked by Jimmys_BabyGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't even know what you want.... First you want a 16 yr old boy *Notice other Yahoo question* and now you want to be a homewrecker. You shouldn't even want kids since you want to sleep with kids. Your totally screwed in the head. Get counseling.
2006-07-09 03:40:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have already answered your own question. If you know that you are going to be hurt by the married man I can relate, I have been in a relationship with a married man for just about one year and it is soooo hard. So if this other guy is going to take care of you, then go for it why sit and wait for someone else, unless he has something that you can't get from your military stud, which I doubt. So good luck and follow your heart
2006-07-06 18:36:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the married man ALONE. You had better stay with the military guy, at least he is not married. And you already said that he would give you what you want.
If you was to stay with the married man, what proof do you have that he will not do the same thing to you that he is doing to his wife when he is seeing you. He is cheating on her with you!! And you are also cheating on the other man as well, at least he is not married.
Try this little motto: Don't say or do anything that you wouldn't say or do in front of your mate. Now with that said, let me ask you this. Would you and your married man act the same way you do in front of his wife? And would you and your married man act they way you do in front of the military man?
2006-07-06 18:47:28 · answer #3 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy who is already married is staying married. He's made that clear by not only staying with his wife but going back to her. He's just not that into you, as they say. The single guy is the way to go. Let go of the married man who really is going to do nothing but break your heart (you already know this) and move onto the guy who you might have a real future with.
2006-07-06 18:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by Super Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he will do it to his current wife he will do it to you. And if the tables were turned and it was you he was married to would you want that done to you. I feel like you want the married man because you cant have him, he is forbidden fruit. Cut your ties to him and go with the military man. Besides if his wife finds out she could go psychotic and hurt you. Most women do not see it as his fault it will be yours. If he was going to be with you he would have never went back to her. Do not pursue that relationship any further and in the future if he becomes available and you are to so be it, grab it and growl. But as for right now cut your ties and go with the military man who will not leave you hurting and wanting more
2006-07-06 18:36:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend,......Don't stay with the married man one more minute. If he really loved you he would be with you. I waited for a married man for 8 years. He lived in his own apartment never going back to her house and alway spending every night with me but still never going thru with his divorce. I waited for tomorrow to come with him. It didn't with him and it won't for you. Let it go. Let the military man in and you will find love there too. Know that it's not the married guy you love but who you want him to be. I let 3 men go that wanted so much to give me the world hoping that this one man would soon get his divorce and we could be together but it never happened and I had to walk away from it all. It doesn't matter where his heart is it's where he sleeps at night and that is with her. Let it go. Open your heart to this other man it sounds like he will truely love you. I wish you all the best. From one woman to anyother that fell for that. Good Luck
2006-07-06 18:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by Jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take the married man, it sounds like you deserve each other. If he is married and seeing you, and finally leaves his wife for you it will only be a matter of time till he leaves you for the next best thing. And if your morals are low enough to be seeing a married man what won't you do. Go for it you deserve each other.
2006-07-06 18:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by aaronlyda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u realy want 2 end up wrecking someone's life bcoz of thiz dude?????
i wuld propose that i leave tha married dude n go 4 tha military guy
anyway follow ur heart
2006-07-06 18:36:23 · answer #8 · answered by aint I beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you answered your own question there honey. Take the military man
2006-07-06 18:31:53 · answer #9 · answered by catsup 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious. you need to do some soul searching. First don't talk to a married man. Second get your priorities straight and third realize that life is not so superficial and materialistic. GROW UP please
2006-07-06 18:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by excaliber00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋