to have sex with a woman. He said that he is saving his self for marriage. All of my friends, including me have girlfriends and it seems like he is coming to his breaking point and is about to LOSE HIS RELGION. My question is should we keep encourging him to stay a virgin or should we watch of friend go thru the pain of never having sex until he is married.(Side Note: Only old people go to his church, so he does not have the oppurntity to meet women his age.)
2006-07-06 11:18:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should support him in whatever he decides you shouldn't try to sway him to your side of fence. The fact that he is questioning it now is probably a good thing I have been there too and I am still quote have my virginity but I experienced some in my teens with oral sex I am 29 now and haven't had any kind of sex for 14 years. I have like kissed guys but not any sex. I have a disability and it limits my physical activity and it sucks really. Because there have been times when I have been tempted to try again but then I lose my nerve because I feel stuck. Between the feelings I have for my personal relationship with God and a beautiful man in front of me that I like and would like to see if it was possible, but then you have to take their feelings into account as well. You can't just jump a person you have to respect their feelings and that means their religion too.
2006-07-06 11:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's really devoted, then he wouldn't mind being celibate. If it's hurting him, then he should just go for it with someone special.
2006-07-06 11:30:22 · answer #2 · answered by Picard Facepalm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jesus christ let the man have sex please....religion has nothing to do with this...why does it even matter..cmon
2006-07-06 11:46:35 · answer #3 · answered by afsaenz9 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend go his own way.
2006-07-09 09:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋