2006-07-06 11:11:24 · 11 answers · asked by SemiCluedIn 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He disregards your feelings for him because you are still sleeping with him. He's not gonna say no to sex just because you have feelings for him. You will have to start telling him no and start caring about you.
2006-07-06 11:16:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Sex and Love is TWO TOTALLY SEPARATE THINGS.
"Of course the idea of love and happiness and all that stuff is appealing. But what does that have to do with getting laid?"--see source below
Sooner you realize the difference, the better off you will be. He may or may not like you as a person but that has nothing do with the fact that you're putting out and he doesn't have to work for it.
2006-07-06 11:20:05 · answer #2 · answered by missdragontat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a friend. I have had one of those before and the whole friends with benefits just won't work out. They never do. Someone always gets hurt. He doesn't love you and once you realize that your feelings are based off of what you 'think' he is instead of what he really is, the better off you will be and you will get over him a lot faster. It worked for me.
2006-07-06 11:17:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is a guy you are talking about he just wanted the sex. He has no intimate feelings for you.
2006-07-06 11:15:20 · answer #4 · answered by nyyankeesg1rl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My first reaction is that he doesn't have feelings for you. However, there is always the possibility that he does, but that he's not comfortable with the feelings that he has. If it was me, I'd point blank call him on it & judge from the reaction. Whatever u do, don't let him sweet talk u. Trust ur gut.
2006-07-06 11:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause he's a guy. You knew what you were getting into "several times" so you really have no one to blame but yourself. Sorry.
2006-07-06 11:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by asw1212 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
clear the air with him
chances are he just doesnt even realise he is doing this
time to sit him down and discuss your feelings
2006-07-06 11:31:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you are nothing more than his f**k buddy. you made the offer and he's just enjoying it. the only bad part is when you go on and on about loving him.
2006-07-06 11:16:24 · answer #8 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he stupid!? if he sleeps with u and still doesnt like you, then, its time to move on, dont u think???
2006-07-06 11:16:26 · answer #9 · answered by miss_cascada_fan95 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they probably just want to hurt you. or they don't want to say that they have the same feelings for you. or he is just dumb
2006-07-06 11:17:49 · answer #10 · answered by bird man 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋