2006-07-06 10:57:50 · 49 answers · asked by jtlee522 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is not specific time in which to tell someone that you love them. If you love someone, you will know, it is not something that you plan.If you are truly in loe, then the time shouldnt matter as long as you tell them. it is important that if you love someone you should let them know that you feel that way. the best time can be anytime, there is no "best"time, just whenever your heart tells you that it is time to let them know how u feel.good luck
2006-07-06 11:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by Amy-Lynn 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When you mean it. When you feel it inside, and know it's true.
Not as a means to get laid.
I wouldn't say it on a first date, that tends to creep a girl out. But if you've been dating someone for a while, or known them for a while and feel the relationship progressing, and know you're falling in love with them, go for it.
You'll know when you do. You'll wake thinking of her, you'll go to sleep thinking of her. She will cross your thoughts all hours of the day and night. When you see her and she looks up and smiles when she sees you, and you feel like someone is squeezing your heart. These would be good signs that it's love and not just lust.
As for the place to tell her...don't do it over the phone, do it face to face. It's up to you to figure out the best time and place after that.
2006-07-06 11:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is per say a given time to say i love you...it has to come from the heart. To many people take those three words for granted...say it when you mean it...and when you know beyond a doubt that you could love that person like you do currently for the rest of your life...give the word meaning...i wish i could take back my love virginity...and be able to tell the woman i am currently with and adore beyong my hearts content...that I love her...and that was the first time i've ever used such a strong word...that would be an amazing gift to give someone...so if you've never said I love you...think about what i said...is this the girl you want to be like...this is the first time i've ever said this to a woman...and i want to give that to you...you are the first girl i've ever loved...
having said that...if you just started dating her...and you tell her what I wrote above...more then likely she will not believe you...
*sigh* i wanna take back my love virginity...lol
2006-07-06 11:03:22 · answer #3 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There really isn't one specific best time, but there are a lot of bad times. Like not when you first meet, when you are trying to get something from it, NOT on the toilet unless you guys are really that comfortable, not after you said something mean to try to make up for it. You should say it and not be afraid, dont listen to the guy saying never. He seems like he was hurt and is bitter, but love didnt do that to him a girl/guy did. Even still he is choosing to still be so angry. You go ahead and say it and mean it. Be in love and enjoy it. Congrats.
2006-07-06 11:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by missesbean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever u mean it. If you are afraid of being weak or looking stupid, then show her with the things you do and not by the things you say. If you think she does not feel the same way then maybe she needs more time or you need to find your self another girl. love is something inside all of us its just up to the individual to express this when him are her feels comfortable.
2006-07-06 11:08:24 · answer #5 · answered by herbertspliffi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean say "I love you" for the first time, the best time is when you are ready to say it and you really do feel it. If you mean in general, the best times are the ordinary times. Just for no reason, tell your significant other "I love you."
2006-07-06 11:01:49 · answer #6 · answered by Church Music Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the question should be turned around to when shouldn't you say it. Don't say it to save a relationship, because it will only end up worse. Don't say it for sex. Don't say it without meaning. Say it when you believe you are falling in love with someone. Can you tell them anything? Or are you still trying to impress them? The day you can see them looking at your worst and still be confident that they like you, then you are sure to be able to say: I love you.
2006-07-06 11:03:40 · answer #7 · answered by Jessicacolin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOT when being intimate - or as a key to start becoming intimate.
It should be said in a non-sexual environment, such as at a nice restaurant, in a beautiful park, etc. (and even then, only if really meant).
These are not words to play with - or manipulate people with - use with caution, and on the one you really do feel that way about.
2006-07-06 11:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your partner a lot about your feelings with them, communication is key, when you both feel the same, and you both think its love, that is the best time to say "i love you."
2006-07-06 11:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by kakez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can tell you that adequately.
The time that was right for htem may either be too soon, too late, or entirely inappropriate to you.
You know what? When the time is right, you will absolutely know. Here's how: "You won't be able to keep it in!" It will just leap out of your mouth before you know what hits you.
That's when the time will be right!
2006-07-06 11:03:20 · answer #10 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋