he is the love of my life! or at least i think he is! and he wants to have sex with me. and i want to too! but i also want to stay a virgian till i get married. but if the moment is right i think im going to go with the mood! what do you think i should do??
2006-07-06 10:57:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was 16 a long time ago and thought I had the love of my life to. I gave myself to him and regret it totally. I'm now 34 and am still waiting for the love of my life to enter the door.
Young women need to realize that what we have is special and we shouldn't be so easy to just give it away.
2006-07-06 11:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sex just be safe and make sure that you take a birth control afterwards. You wouldn't to get an STD and I'm sure you wouldn't want to get pregnant. Having sex before marriage isn't uncommon and if you urge for it then you should go ahead and do it. It will more than likely change your relationship with your guy though, because once sex is introduced into a relationship between young people the outcomes aren't always expected.
A lot of people I know though wish that they had waited to have sex until marriage because the wait made sex more special and was reserved for that special "one" person.
I, however, don't think that everyone can or should wait to have sex when they are married because instincts are hard to ignore and passions are powerful and are usually good.
2006-07-06 18:02:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!! You are far too young to understand the emotional side of it. It may or may not feel good at the time - but what happens if you split up and then you wish you had never done it.
You also say "you think hes the love of your life". Your too young to know what love is, and even if this is it (which I doubt) you need to be sure before you go any further. Please wait until your sure and dont let him pressure you into it. If he says "if you love me you will" thats pressurising you. You say "If you love me you will wait" - if he walks because you dont then he never loved you, if he stays and waits (and stops pressurising you) then theres a chance it will turn into real love.
Once its gone its gone and you cant get it back!
2006-07-06 18:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by LifeChange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes way too young. It is best if you wait because sex changes everything. Since he is the only one thinking of sex does he know how you feel about the subject.? If he start to pressure you & keep bring sex conversation then he is not worth the time. If he won't waint then he is not ment for you.
2006-07-06 18:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok as long as u 2 are in love age isnt anything but a number and if u feel its right go for it...Just make sure to be safe condoms and birth control!~!~!
2006-07-06 18:02:00 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you prepared - emotionally and financially, to raise a child on your own?
Are you prepared - emotionally and financially, to deal with an STD that could stay with you for the rest of your life ... or worse?
2006-07-06 18:07:08 · answer #6 · answered by insuranceguytx 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT! if he is the love of your life, he will wait too.
and you sound unsure.... you think he is the love of your life? well if he is you can wait a few years and then get married. THEN you can have sex.
2006-07-06 18:01:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should wait till your married, chances are your not gonna marry this guy and your gonna break up sooner or later.
2006-07-06 18:00:57 · answer #8 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, I think you already have the answer!
2006-07-06 18:03:50 · answer #9 · answered by Tortoise23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course!!
2006-07-06 18:02:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋