2006-07-06 10:55:33 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be ur self bc ur weight shouldn't matter n if it does then why would u want her any way. Peolpe change sizes all the time so u have to know the real person n judge them by that.
Good luck!
2006-07-06 10:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by leenabootie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. Weight doesn't matter, at least not to me, but I know that if you have an issue than you should do something about it because you want. Your asking because it bothers you. You think that you can't get a girl because of your weight and you probably won't because your not going to believe it because you feel that your weight is going to get in the way.
Trust me. Been there, done that. Do what makes you feel happy. If you feel you need to be thinner, so be it. If your happy the way you are, how ever you are, so be it. You have no idea how many mistakes I've made thinking that I wasn't good enough. How many doors I;ve closed because of this way of thinking.
MAKE YOU HAPPY.
If a girl doesnt like you because of your weight and didn't even see you for you, she's stupid. Move on.
2006-07-06 18:06:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Andrew, it's not about getting a girl to like you. Really, it's not.
The more pertinent question is, "Do you like yourself as you are?"
If the answer is yes, then do nothing. You will meet someone in the course of your life who will also love you just as you are. The rest is up to you!
If, however, the answer is no, then set about remedying what ails you about yourself. If your being overweight is a problem to you, then get busy, buddy! Get it fixed. Either lose the weight safely, or tone up what you have. Improve your diet and or exercise regime. If the problems are not related to the weight (you mentioned it, so I assume it concerns you), then get working on them.
I have learned in life that the best way to attract a great person....is to BE a great person!
2006-07-06 18:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being over weight shouldn't be an obstacle for you to get gurls. It's not always on how a boy looks but his heart also. You could be ugly as hell and still be conceided. It all comes from the inside. You should try to loose a couple of pounds but if you pray to God, you will find the right one and it might not be now but later down the line of your life I feel that you will find that special girl that loves you for who you are and not what you have. P.S. Good lUck and May God Bless!
2006-07-06 18:02:54 · answer #4 · answered by Angel at War 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're talking about a specific girl...
You want her to like you for you, not for the shape of your body. Losing weight might impress her in the short term, but if she'll only like you if you're thin, she isn't worth the trouble.
As for any girl in general...
First impressions mean a lot. If you don't look like you can take care of yourself properly, people won't think you're able to take care of them. Go on a diet, get some exercise, cut out the sweets, get off the couch, turn off the computer and do something outdoors.
2006-07-06 18:00:41 · answer #5 · answered by johntadams3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all girls don't care how someone looks, they look for whats inside, besides just wait you'll find the right girl. And if you dont like your image. Since it is summer. Lose weight big time. So it will be a wow when you go in school again. That is if you are hgoing to school
2006-07-06 17:59:19 · answer #6 · answered by hahaha=] shaa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first spell weight right. second you have to win her over by personality. you may have to open up your standards. if you want a 5'5 barbie its going to be harder for you to get her to like you if you went with an average girl.
ask yourself this
would you rather eat a salad or a hamburger?
if you say a hamburger, well find a girl who rather eat a hamburger. just find someone who has the same interest as you. it will be easier that way.
sadly people are very superficial so you are going to have to go beyond your weight to win their hearts.
2006-07-06 18:02:47 · answer #7 · answered by danielle s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself sweetie. No one wants to be with someone who isn't acting like their true selves. I firmly believe that there is someone for everyone. Someone will eventually come along. Besides, if a person can't appreciate you for who you are, instead of for your physical appearance, then you don't want to be with them anyway and they probably don't deserve to have you as a part of their life.
2006-07-06 18:06:39 · answer #8 · answered by Holly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. Difficult one that one. Personally I think the answer lies in not trying to 'get a girl to like you'. Everyone will find people who they are attracted to, and who are attracted to them. The more overweight you are, the fewer people you'll meet who find you attractive (sorry about that: it's the harsh truth). Anyway, my answer is you don't need to try anything radical, just realise that you will meet girls who find you attractive.
2006-07-06 18:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Steve-Bob 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to have more confidence in yourself and love your self first. Most girls are not worried about what a guy looks like as much as guys are. Just be yourself.
2006-07-06 18:00:22 · answer #10 · answered by amy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋