home is turn on the T.V. and watch porn.
2006-07-06 10:48:58 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well.. I'd be a little wary at first, then if it continued I'd be pissed.. but that's just me.. I figure if my man wants to be around me, then he needs to put the focus ON ME when he has the chance, because I'm a busy lady too.. and if hobbys such as movies (especially porn) is going to get attention before I do in the relationship.. then why stay in that relationship?
Porn is an everybody for themselves hobby.. so I'd let him BE by himself and his lonely hand that may very well be missing him.
2006-07-06 10:58:26 · answer #1 · answered by Craptacular Wonderment 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I bet this sucks for you huh? I totally understand. See my husband likes to watch porn...sometimes to much I think. And you see, I don't mind watching SOME porn, but like right before we do the "act" then I just want to shut it off. I bet you are hurt, right? Like you feel you are not good enough?? I always feel the same way. You see, I am a larger women and I feel like the women on the porns are so "pretty" and so not me. Ya know!?! my advice to you is to tell him how it makes you feel, and if he don't listen; buy a guy porn with the hottest men you can find in them....pop it in right before he gets home and act all into it...not in a horny way but in a OMG...are they hot or what kind of way. Maybe he will see how you feel, do this a few times. He will come around. My husband did. But, if he doesn't that actually is a name for people addicted to porn. Check into it. Please let me know how your problem progresses and remember you are not alone. We all have the problems your are having. Good luck Chicka!!
2006-07-06 10:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once or twice -- eh, let it pass...
If it happens repeatedly - the porn will be out of the house before he gets home, so he won't have the option of sitting down with it.
Plus, dressing up in some attractive lingere for him, might make him change his mind...
2006-07-06 10:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Skiingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you feel about it. I would be completely shocked because it's not consistent with my husband's character. If you want, watch it with him and see if you like it. If it's a problem for you (and it definitely would be for me), tell him so. You need to work something out with him. If it's non-negotiable, tell him so. If you think you can compromise with him, maybe you could work it out so he only watches it when you're out with your girlfriends or something. No matter what, talk to him and make sure you understand each other on the issue as you try to work out a solution.
2006-07-06 10:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by cucumberlarry1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is someone actually allowing this to happen??? I would not put up with this at all. I would talk to my partner first and explain to him how inappropriate his actions are. If things did not change, I would have to make an ultimatum...he changes or I leave. It is apparent that he is not concerned about his spouse's feelings and apparently has some other issues. Maybe counseling would help?
2006-07-06 10:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by TJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell him that there is no reason for him to be with me if he is more interested in porn than me and when he is ready to have a relationship intead of sitting his *** in front of the TV and drooling over diseased women on TV then he might think about talking to me
2006-07-06 10:56:21 · answer #6 · answered by chantal1120 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really wanted some I'd prefer if he would just talk to me. He'd be happier than just watching other people do it, and I'd feel better because it wouldn't create any questions or insecurities in my mind about why he would rather come home and watch other people do it than do it with me.
2006-07-06 10:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by beanie_baby_88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like porn, Have you tried watching it with him? I hated it before and now love it. It makes everything so much sexier and wilder, in my opinion it improves our sex. My boyfriend also sometimes watches it alone, it's not a big deal all he's gonna do is play with his wenis.
2006-07-06 10:53:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would like this very much. I mean, that is kinda disrespectful, especially when you have a live, living, breathing girlfriend or wife to re-enact those fantasies with. Men are very strange. I love men a lot but, they are so freaking' weird sometimes.
2006-07-06 10:54:28 · answer #9 · answered by Peace2All 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sell the T.V
2006-07-06 10:54:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋