So should I are not. I told him take me as I am I love him but I won;t to leave the pass in the pass it has nothing to do with us. He cheated in me once before because he said that I lyied to him when I did not tell him everything adout this guy and he asked around and found out . Like I said I love him but I don't see how that will make someone cheat on you He says the only way we will be togther is to tell him. What do I do
2006-07-06 10:35:08 · 5 answers · asked by Wow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont tell him...it'll cause nothing but heartache.
2006-07-06 10:37:08 · answer #1 · answered by flcntrygal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, when it comes to someone who broke up with you before wants to get back together with you, they probably learned their lesson. In your case, with what he did, i think the best thing is to not tell him and to just leave him be. He already had to have hurt you with him cheating on you, you are better off not bothering with someone like that. you should realise if he is willing to put you through something like that, Unless he can find some way to prove to you that he will not hurt you again, dont tell him................. even if he says thats the only way for you two to be together............ if he loves you or truly cares about you and this relationship, he wont want to know and should just want to move past this bump in the road.
2006-07-06 17:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by L0ST_aNgeL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should not go back with him. He cheated on you and blamed you for it. He will do that again. If you decide to still go back with him under no circumstance should you tell him anything you did with other guys. The whole thing will blow up and get very ugly.
2006-07-06 17:39:57 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds emotionally unstable and if he is willing to cheat with out talking to you then it sounds to me like you are looking in the wrong direction for relationships. Some one who is honestly caring will make the effort if its affection. Spite and revenge are not natural thoughts for a lover.
2006-07-06 17:38:46 · answer #4 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO!!!
I know it might be hard because you love him, but love yourself and not jump into his insecurities. That is drama waiting on CBS to pick it up.
It doesnt matter who you have been with!!!!
If you stay with him, and never tell him what he wants to know then will always throw it up in your face when it comes to the ''honesty'' issue.
If you tell him, he will never trust you and it just aint worth it. He is insecure!!!!!
2006-07-06 17:41:23 · answer #5 · answered by !@#$$ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋