I don't want to her his feelings and he has given me allot of money, but we have nothing in common, and I can say there is nothing about him that I like. His feelings are hurt very easliy, and he has caught me with another man. I feel bad about it and I do care what happens to him, but I know I could never be with him. What can I do. He cries all the time. I even tried to find him a women his own age. Which is 60, he is 30yrs my senior.
2006-07-06 10:34:32 · 9 answers · asked by Ms. Good P. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
your a gold digger......
2006-07-06 10:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trina -
You are already seeing a married man, and now you are with another guy who is 30 years older than you.
Honey - get a clue and leave both of these guys.
You must grow up and face the fact that both of those relationships are going to hurt you somewhere in the future.
Find a nice guy closer to your own age who is emotionally mature and a responsible person.
2006-07-07 10:20:17 · answer #2 · answered by docscholl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you have taken money from this 60 year old man? and he has feelings for you? well, I would just break it off with him. He sounds like he just wants attention and your giving it to him. Just pay back the money you borrowed ( unless you took a lot of money) and just walk away. You can't be in that kind of relationship and he certainly does not sound like he should be around you either.
2006-07-06 17:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by Man_With_No_Name 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i'm sorry to hear this...
It seems you may have lead him on some...but I'm sure you are aware of that. I think you need to be honest and upfront with him...let him know that you two are friends and that is how it has to be. Let him know that you enjoy spending time with him but you could never date him. He needs to understand that you will be seeing other guys and if that upsets him that maybe you can't be friends. But don't be harsh to him in the fact of being its over...I never want to see him...even if that is what you truly want...you can eventually fade out of the picture...but don't make him quit his new found addiction cold turkey...but you do need to be upfront with him...have him start letting his hopes down...
2006-07-06 17:39:21 · answer #4 · answered by lanceh13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's very lonely.
You seriously need to sit down and tell him these things. You might hurt him, but you're hurting yourself, too. You shouldn't have to stop dating because this guy's feelings might get hurt.
Let him know you'll be his friend, but that's as much as you can give to the relationship. Be gentle, but firm. Good luck!
2006-07-06 17:39:19 · answer #5 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey if hes 60 and rich and gives me lots of money id ride it out alittle longer. how much time could he have left any way. and when he dies he'll probably leave everything to you.
2006-07-06 17:38:42 · answer #6 · answered by mama_2_milana 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you dont want him why would you except his money you should pay his money back and then back away if you have any pride about your self
2006-07-06 17:39:47 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him straight up.... you're too old!
2006-07-06 17:38:07 · answer #8 · answered by Heatmizer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty goldiggerish of you don't you think?
2006-07-06 17:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by cutipi_1977 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋