Why do homosexuals want to get married? Is it just so that they don't feel guilty about being perverted?

Question

I mean... they can't have children together...

and I really feel sorry for any kid who has 2 dads or 2 moms... I mean... that's an easy way to make sure your child is emotionally damaged from not having a mother/father and making them a social outcast among their peers...

At the least... if a gay person wants kids that bad than a gay guy should like marry a lesbian and do it the normal way...

Answer 1

Have you ever read the studies on guys that gay bash? They more than likely are gay themselves. You can try to bash it out of us here, but you can't bash it inside yourself.

Most all of us know this, you are making yourself look trite

Answer 2

Boy, I sure hope you like to read. So, why the heck do you think a lesbian will solve the issue? I mean, why do you care whether the child has two parents that are of the same sex, it's not your problem. There are many kids that have only one parent or even parents of the opposite sex and are more messed up than any kids with two parents of the same sex will ever be. Happy parents = happy children...regardless of whether the parents are of the same sex or not. By, the way, what's this 'perverted' thing you are talking about? I mean, you don't have to be gay to be perverted. I'm pretty preverted and I'm as straight as an arrow. Here's a suggestion....worry about your own life and stop being such a closed minded fool.

Answer 3

I've thought about this a lot and at this point this is my thinking:

The ease of divorcing and escalating divorce rate erases the argument 'sacredness of marriage'.

No one is upset that children are being raised with a variety of 'significant others', half of the children are not living with both their natural parents.

There are so many anomelies in the birth of everyone, i.e., emotions, personality, birth defects, geniuses, retardation. If a person is homosexual maybe he was born that way. Did God make a mistake?

That being said: I do not believe in adultry, fornication or multiple partners. But if any two people true love each other, are faithful to each other and living responsible lives to the best of their ability who are any of us to judge? Why deny good people the opportunity to pursue happiness?
I am glad that God has the jobof judging. Only He can truly know anyone's heart or motivation.

I am straight as an arrow but try to always accept people as they are. This way I don't get upset by minding others business. I am at peace and serene.

Answer 4

The more important question is, why do you care?
Are you totally ignorant?

Whether they are married or not they can adopt a child! Had you been a homeless child you would HAVE LOVED to have parents who cared for you and loved you... you little arrogant snot!! I suffered on the streets for a long time, and I can tell you I would have been THANKFUL for a family, no matter how weird it might have been.

Believe it of not, they love each other, and to get the way of their freedom to pursue their happiness means you're not AMERICAN!!! You NAZI's should leave and stop ruining the country that so many died to ensure would be free!

Christ said to Love One Another and cast out the Ten Commandments... you SO CALLED Christains are SO FAKE AND EVIL!

Don't believe me? Wait until God gets a hold of you... TRY READING the BIBLE from start to finish, A lot of things said in the beginning are changed by the end. Jesus SAVED man from his sinful ways, and hatred is SIN.

I hope you like it Hot.

Answer 5

Marriage is a civil union...one does not have to get married in the church to be considered "married", and if you do get married in a church, your marriage is not considered anything until the good ol' government gets their paperwork. People who are gay would like the chance to have the same rights as everyone else, as they should. Imagine someone in the hospital, and their partner of 25 years can't see them because they aren't "family". It's a load of crap. All marriages are civil unions....some just choose to make it a religious matter. I say let them have all the rights every other couple has. And to those who say a child can't be raised by two men or two women....I'm a teacher, and I've seen people do it just fine. They work just as hard, if not harder, at raising their children right. Besides, I've seen many more heterosexual couples screw their children up.

Answer 6

I am already granted religious marriage by my religion, so having my union blessed by God is already something I can do. However, the government that I pay taxes to says that I cannot get married and refuses to change laws where companies, businesses, hospitals, and so on must discriminate against people who are denied civil marriage. Gays are asking that the government make these changes, whether under the word "marriage" or not is a different topic altogether.

When I got sick and had to go to the hospital the entire time the nurses and hospital staff kept asking my permission for my beloved to be in the room with me. When I commented that they needn't ask me since he is my partner they said that by law they must since we are not legally married and are not immediate family (parents, siblings). I realized at that moment that if I had not been able to speak for myself that he would have been denied access to me and would have been denied the ability to give instructions on my medical care. When my beloved and I got car insurance for our car we were informed that even though both of us would be driving the car that if we had been married we would have received a discount on our insurance. And in my own State that I live in I have watched as a gay man whose partner died and in his will left his partner their entire farm (the will for both of them did this) the State courts ruled that the will was invalid, once again proving that if they had been married under law the man would not have lost all his property and the legal will would not have been ruled as invalid. And there are other accounts of discrimination that have occured because of this. I have a friend who was raised with two moms (she's heterosexual). She loves both of her moms very much and I have heard the stories of how growing up she would have some friends that couldn't come over to her house and play because the parents of that child did not like that she had two moms. I have heard her tell me how adults would tell her that having two moms was wrong (in everything I've heard her fellow classmates and kids in the neighborhood had no problem with the fact that she had two moms...it was always the adults who seemed to have the problem). It wasn't that she didn't have a father. She did and she knew him and got to spend time with him. He was still a part of her life. As she often says "In reality I am very lucky because I have three mothers: my birth mother, my mother's beloved, and the wife of my father who is also like a mother to me as well." And most of the kids I know who were raised by families with two same-sex parents they all knew their opposite-sex parent as well, they just didn't live in the same house with them. The few that I know who were adopted often also have an unofficial opposite-sex parent...usually a best friend of the same-sex couple.

And a lot of the gays who are truly striving to civil marriage rights are doing so because they have seen the discrimination their parental rights have suffered and are trying to be good parents and protect their children, etc. Having a neice of my own I do understand how they feel when they discuss the problems they have faced all because the law works against them. My sister does not often face those problems (but has faced problems since she is a single mother, but not quite the same problems) and just knowing that parents are treated so badly in this nation sometimes really irritates me. For a nation that constantly speaks about doing what is best for our future and our children I get so aggrevated with those who find any little thing that breaks the traditional mold of their defination of family and then decides that discrimination against those other forms of family is okay and that the law should reflect that. I may not be a parent, but I will always support parents' rights. I grew up in a great family. The traditional "nuclear" family. Mom, dad, my sister, and me. But that doesn't mean that I haven't known others who had other forms of family and all the people I know and grew up with seemed to have turned out just fine and are living happy and successful lives, too.

Answer 7

What is perverted about being a homosexual? Do you understand the meaning of perverted? That's reserved for people with weird fetishes, or child molesters. People who are gay are gay because they have uncontrollable hormone imbalances in their brains that make their body, including emotions all out of whack. You know, like crazy people, they have medications for that, but they don't have medications for being gay. Belive it or not, gay people are just normal people who happen to love someone of the same gender. They deserve to be just as happy as anyone else. Keep in mind issues regarding health care, insurance, inheritance.... all laws that control or organize the lives of heterosexual couples, by law, gay couples have no rights to these things. Imagine spending 50 years of your life with someone, having a family with someone, and then when they're on their deathbed, you are not allowed to visit them, because you're not legal "family." That's not right. You need to seriously get out there and experience life, instead of letting other people decide your experiences for you. I have a lot of good friends who are "homosexuals" and they are not perverts! They are loving individuals who are not any different from you or me.

Answer 8

I'm sure they don't feel a bit of guilt... and they most likely don't view it as perverted at all. Why is it that so many people like to lay their own emotions about a topic onto other people? Speak for yourself... quit trying to tell other people they are feeling guilty just because you would feel guilt if you did it.

And basically, they would settle for civil unions in order to be able to claim their partner on insurance, be able to leave everything to them when they pass on, file taxes together, etc... it's a Gov't thing. We have a secular gov't. To place religion in it... well, lol... After seeing how so many disagree even on their own religion, I doubt the gov't would last very long.

Answer 9

Gay rights are the new civil rights. You sound exactly like the racists in the early 1900's who were so against giving blacks and women the right to vote. It will happen, your children will be ashamed of your prejudices just as today's generation is ashamed of their grandparent's racism and prejudice. The Bible also supports slavery, but you wouldn't dare support that in this day and age would you? Don't be so hateful. Homosexuals have nothing wrong with them, though you obviously do.

Answer 10

You don't have to be gay to be perverted, trust me, I know... Anyways, being gay isn't a perversion or mental illness or whatever the Republicans/Church (save Episcopalians, go Catholic Lite!) tell you, and I'm sure God loves them just like the rest of us. I think they want to get married because that's what people do when they love each other... that and all the cool benefits like equal rights.

Answer 11

Dude, it's ok if you're gay. You don't have to talk about yourself in thrid person and act as though your lifestyle is perverted. It's also ok if you and your gay partner want kids. I'm sure you'll raise them to be as accepting of others as you are.

Before you begin you journey, you may want to first come out of the closet. Homophobia is a sign of insecurity with one's sexuality. The truth will set you free.