Why is it that many people consider that a person that is a older virgin (say in their late 20s, early 30s) that if they were a virgin by choice, that it is somehow harder and more honorable than a person of the same age that was a virgin but NOT by choice?
Example
Some people think
1) Oh I'm 30 and still a virgin by choice
Well you should be very proud! It’s very hard.
2) I'm 30 and still a virgin, I just never got the chance
Eh........(*rolls eyes)
It’s not that hard to find a prostitute you know.
2006-07-06 10:14:10 · 5 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I am a virgin, not by choice.
2006-07-06 10:20:06 · update #1
I think a lot of people find that it's harder to remain a virgin by choice because there are so many temptations and opportunities out there, which are sometimes very difficult to resist. Opposed to someone that was never tempted, and didn't have to fight off that temptation. It's easier to go without what is never offered to you. Also, most people would think that a 30 year old that WANTED to have sex, but couldn't, there must be something wrong with them... Not necessarily true, but that's the perception.
2006-07-06 10:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the things in this world are only honorable if they're intentional. Another reason society is so screwed up.
2006-07-06 17:20:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry about it, people have there opinions and some of those opinions are not worth the thought....
2006-07-06 17:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your weird!!! you seriously have problems why do u ask are you a virgin still or something???
2006-07-06 17:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by °•.°•hunnibun°•.°• 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know where you're going with this as I read your other question...I'm sorry..........
2006-07-06 18:37:49 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋