Am i cheating if i look at other women?

Answer 1

it don't matter where you get your appetite - as long as you eat your meals at home

Answer 2

Only if you are looking to admire, not with lust. I am divorced 13 years now, and I wish I had not divorced my husband, because he was the best of the best. I was the one who needed to change some of myself. But I didn't realize it at the time, now I miss my immediate family. When I divorced my husband of 28 years, it broke up the whole immediate family. I don't know if it will ever be some of what it was thirteen years ago. It is a heart breaker deal when one goes looking in another direction and thinks that the grass just MIGHT be greener on the other side of the fence because it ISN'T. Believe me, been there, done that.

Answer 3

It depends on what you are thinking when you are looking at them i believe women are the most beautiful creature's God created and you would either be dead or blind if you didn't look but are you undressing them with your eyes lusting after them want to do it with if this is the case then yes you cheated in your heart and mind just the same if you have a dream you are with another woman.

Answer 4

I perosnally do not consider that cheating. Now if the looks are followed by inproper thoughts then that might be a little different. I belive it is alright to look , hey no one is blind right... but I think it should be done with respect. If you love your partner and the looking was just looking then I say no you were not cheating!

Answer 5

Looking at other women does not mean that you are cheating. I always tell my husband he can look all he wants as long as he doesn't touch it's all good. Hey what the hell I tell him to look we both acknowledge a beauty when we see one. As long as you don't disrespect her it shouldn't be a problem.

Answer 6

what comes to mind when u look at other women? if u think only of getting in between those legs, then man u have a big problem
a very big one which would land u in hell
but then if u are looking for a beautiful lady to get closer to
then say a prayer to God and tell Him to help you find someone who would prevent you from turning your head any direction again
and if u ever say that prayer, stop looking around, cos it would come

Answer 7

Nope. Looking is not cheating, no matter what anyone says.

Cheating is.....Having a relationship with someone, such as, going out, hooking up.

Answer 8

Taking a look is a natural thing, not if you desire or lust over the women you see then you're heading in the wrong direction. Because desire turns into lust and lust turns into sin. Look at women with admiration and their beauty, not how good they would look under you.

Answer 9

I would say looking is fine but don't make any comments if your gf/wife is with you. If driving, keep your eyes on the road. My bf was driving and almost rearended someone while looking at a woman getting out of her car. He didn't realize that it was me! (Would that be considered looking at another woman or not? lol). I can't believe he told me about it, but it was funny.

Answer 10

yes.

my bf and and i have the same philosophy:

if you are wanting to look at someone else, then obviously you don't care about the person you are with enough not to.

if you want someone else other than the person you are with, even in your mind, it's cheating, plain and simple.

would you like your other half to check out other people?

Answer 11

To some women it would be a problem but it doesn't hurt to look in my book.