See..Stephen was my first *true* love. Then..we broke up..and then we started talkin again.Well..while we were talkin, I get a phone call from my bestfriend chelsey called me and told me that stephen and jessica has been talkin on the phone and the next day stephen was going to jessicas house. Well I call and ask Jessica about it. && of course she said it was a lie. Well..2 weeks later, It was there schools 8th grade graduation. Well I wasnt in that school so I wasnt graduating. But I didnt get to go. To find out, Stephen went and seen Jessica and they started dating. **-i was crushed-**!! I tried everyway in the world to get Stephen back. I even tried fighting Jessica numerous times. It was just makeing me look like the fool. And now, he is dropping hints *BIG* time that he still loves me but he wont admit it. I mean..*our song* is his myspace profile song. Will someone please tell me whats the best way to go with this? I want him back, but...he wants Jessica. --please help--
2006-07-06 09:54:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
omg!!!!!! i have the EXACT same propblem!!!!! my heart bleeds for you!! i no exactly what your goning true what you long for but you cant have it.. and it just leaves you feeling so empty inside and you CANT get him off your mind no matter what!!!! girl i feel it.. you aint alone! i DONT know the answer, but when you find it PLEASE tell me!!!!!!! xxxxxxx
2006-07-06 09:58:57 · answer #1 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i think you should let him go and find you someone else. Because he did not really love you if he went wtih yor so called ''bestfriend''! Sounds to me like he played you. Maybe he is playing jessica too maybe thats why he is telling you he still likes you maybe he is hoping you will tell someone and it will get back to Jessica and she will break up with him b/c he is not man enough. The song he coud haev put that on there and told Jessica this is mine and (ur) song and trying to hint to her. You deserve much better there are more fish in the sea trust me. Good Luck!
2006-07-06 10:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by victoria2chat2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww..I'm sorry you're learning an ugly lesson kiddo. Honest. But the best advice I can give you, and I've given this same advice to my own kids when this happened to them (yes, unfortunately it happens to everyone at some point...) and that was....the problem that broke you guys up still isn't resolved, and most likely never will be. So trying to get back together just won't work. Learn from this, your heart will be a bit harder the next time around, and you'll be wiser. Good Luck ... and Hang in....
2006-07-06 09:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Govt B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Learn early about situations like this...... Move on. It's obviously not a healthy situation to be in when you have to resort to violence. It's unattractive and down right ugly. Not to minimize your feelings, but you need to guard your heart and mind more carefully. Learn to observe the behavior of the people around you prior to making decisions on who to trust.
You stated you want your ex-boyfriend back. Why would you? I mean seriously speaking would you also want your ex-best friends relationship back too? If you wouldn't, then why would you accept his friendship back on that level? Clearly he has moved on in. Hold your head up high, forgive them both, treat then kindly, and act like a young lady who has dignity and self worth. In the process of time you WILL find another person (hopefully when you're a little older and wiser) who will like the beautiful person you are but also have enough respect to know... that he shouldn't be pushing up on your best friend. You first however, must respect yourself... Don't act like that (the fighting stuff) anymore because it's truly very unattractive.
Also, any person who doesn't respect the whole best friend concept... and tries to deal with your "best" friend on that level.. is WRONG!... and Wrong for you. TRUST!
2006-07-06 10:11:24 · answer #4 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok hun i know how it is to be stuck on ur first true love but the thing is,is that this guy sounds like a lil player to me....if he has done this once to u he will do it again...also if he is hitting on u while dating another girl he would end up doing that to u as well...my advice get over him there are alot more guys out there!~!~! Good Luck, i feel for ya!~!~!
2006-07-06 09:59:44 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't be subjected to him because he will in no drought hurt you again without even think about it. He's your first love and he won't be your last move on your bigger than that I'm sure you'll find an other but take your time and in front of him don't show that your hurting it just makes you venerable.show you can do better and you will since he's the one that screwed around. Good luck sweetie
2006-07-06 10:01:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will take time, but in the long run you will be better off by yourself, and not with him. Some people are just jerks and he is one of them. I think that if he really loves you he would be back with you in a heartbeat. Don't listen to your heart, because it will get broken in time, if it isn't already. No man is worth the heartache.
2006-07-06 09:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by jj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby listen, It will be hard to understand this. Why would you want someone that left you for someone else? You will always be second because if he did it once he will do it again. Trust me. Forget him or don't. But go on with your life. Its special. Don't look for love. Love will find you.
2006-07-06 10:04:07 · answer #8 · answered by Divine_Gesture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the best thing to do is let them be i know cuz i went threw it myself my best friend and my kids mom married each other and it hurt me really bad that was 4 years ago.and now they are not together anymore..so what im trying to say is..let them do what they want in time it will come back to them..just move on and find some one alot better then him..he is out there keep your eyes open..
2006-07-06 09:59:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i went through the same thing with my first love dont fall for it! If he did it once who said he wouldn't do it again. Don't get back with him and shame on your bestfriend or ex bestfriend jessica.
2006-07-06 10:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by a good listener 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I extremely might want to extremely comprehend what you've been attempting to ask,spell words out please.yet besides,from what i understood in case you want your boyfriend youll probably be apologetic about letting him bypass for someone you in simple terms met at one factor or yet another.
2016-10-14 04:47:30 · answer #11 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋