GIRLS help me?

Question

when i have to do all the chasing it makes me so mad, i try to leave her alone, give her space but it doesnt seam to do anything, she just gives me sh1t if i ask whats wrong, i try speaking to her about how she feels and then just doesnt say anything, she basically ignores me, it makes me absolutely crazy, i have never had a temper, in the slightest but when i think about what we do i just wanna explode and do something, i dont know what, its just crap, any advice, i dont wanna leave her either
and thanks for the other answers

Answer 1

Leave her alone and don't bother her and pretend like you don't care and she will be all over you. I think she just wants a lot of your attention. So just try it and be patient.

Answer 2

You need to play hard to get babe!
Act like you don't give a toss, but don't be mean about it though. Let her phone you, and let her do the chasing. See how long it takes her to contact you. Depending on how often you see each other, set yourself a day for her to contact you by.
By what your saying it seems as though she may be getting bored in your relationship or maybe feels suffocated. Personally I find that when a relationship gets to the point where it's crap it's time to move on. Hope it works out for you.

Answer 3

Either she is not interested or she is just like that. If it is the first, you really need to leave her. If it is the latter, you wanted to be with her and you should have already known what she was like. Accept her the way she is. I kind of know how you feel though. It is hard when someone you love just totally ignores you no matter what you do.

Answer 4

To be honest hun...your g/f sounds nuts. Your a good looking fella and you obvisously think the world of her and are very caring...yet she still treats you like crap. She's one of these people that abuses those closest to her. You've two choices, put up with her and drop any hope of ever changing her...or move on, and show her the meaning of the saying 'you dont know what ya got till it's gone'.

Answer 5

oh dear you've got into infatuation and this girl is going to mess you up! I was with someone for two years and we seemed so compatible and so similar but we made each other worse and brought out the worst in each other. you've got to get out before you do lose control and do something you'll really regret. you will find someone else. it's your low self-esteem making you cling and it will only get worse with a girl who holds back and torments you. she may make you close down from ever loving so get get away and stay away. Love doesn't hurt but expections can cause pain and you can't expect anything from an emotional clam

Answer 6

It does sound as if she doesn't like you very much, maybe you should ask her point blank if she wants to continue the relationship. Sounds like she is trying to wind you up. Perhaps if you suggest breaking up with her she will change her tune, if not you'd probably be better off without her.

Answer 7

She's having mixed feelings and doesn't know what to do or say. It will be hard but instead of talking about how she feels try to take her to the movies or a restaurant.

Answer 8

what is the point go get someone who does want you why put up with it she cant be the right one dont go losing your temper over some girl your young enough have some fun good luck x

Answer 9

speaking from experience, when i used to act like that my boyfriend put up up with it saying how up it made him and ill be truthful i didnt care as long as i was ok....it wasnt until he took interest in someone that i realsed what an idiot i was being.

so my advice is to try and talk to her 1 last time, if no better act aloof and look interested in somone else.....if its ment to be she'll change her ways if not then take it as a waring a run like hell!!! guess it an't going to get better!!!

Answer 10

I know its hard but u have to move on cuz i think she move on cuz if she really loved u she wouldn't be acting like this
well good luck w/ ur relationship