2006-07-06 09:49:51 · 13 answers · asked by Roberto 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i thought it was going to be a quick summer fling, but its turning into something pretty amazing!
2006-07-06 10:00:22 · update #1
well now is the time to tell her & if she cant accept it or does not want to be with some one who has children then that is her choice & respect her for that, If she does decide she does not want to see you anymore I m asure it is her loss not yours
2006-07-06 09:52:47 · answer #1 · answered by bite_me_harder_28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You always want to start a relationship out on the right track; lying or neglecting to tell someone something can damage a relationships potential for longevity. It would be wise to tell her upfront now, instead of waiting - by then she will be thinking "why didn't he say that in the beginning". Which will only lead her to further think, "is he a liar, a cheat or is he one of those guys who trys to be slick and pull wool over womens eyes". Let her know soon, you will feel better about being honest and everything is now out in the open. Then she is able to make a decision on her own about what she wants.
2006-07-06 17:26:31 · answer #2 · answered by Bena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be up front with the girl about your two young boys. One thing to remember is that when a girl gets involved with a "dad" then she gets the children as well. You have to come as a complete package and if she is not interested in that, it is better to find out now verses later when feelings are a lot stronger.
2006-07-06 16:54:07 · answer #3 · answered by tweety_223 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know 12 years ago my sister had this same problem. My husband and I fixed her up on a blind date. She asked me I we told the guy that she had three kids. I said no. She asked why. I told her because if it doesn't work out it doesn't matter and if you fall in love it won't matter. If it's really going to work the fact that you have two kids isn't going to matter. To love you is to love your boys too. So when the time is right you'll tell her.
Oh, by the way. My sister married the guy and he adopted her three children.
2006-07-06 16:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by Laurie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If you go out with her agin it might be a good idea to let her know before someone else does and she thinks you were trying to hide it from her.
2006-07-06 16:52:57 · answer #5 · answered by berryjolynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. I can understand you not telling her so soon, but if you want to keep on seeingher, you need to mention the kifds to her. Be prepared that she might not respond to well, then again she might be just fine with it. Best wishes.
2006-07-06 16:59:55 · answer #6 · answered by tigerprincess_bee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her now if you really like her. So she dosent hear it form someone else. then she'll might think your hiding things. So put it all out on the table if she really like you she wont care if you have kids
2006-07-06 17:02:37 · answer #7 · answered by Chevy Lover 814 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you holding back on telling the truth?What are you hiding? Gosh be honest ...That is the first thing you should of done when you first met..Wake up and smell the coffee.....
2006-07-06 16:56:16 · answer #8 · answered by tshee70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to tell her if you like her at all and have any hope of the relationship lasting
2006-07-06 16:54:07 · answer #9 · answered by KMR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Examine your heart and ask yourself why you would choose to do that?
Ask yourself why you would hide a such an important part of who you are... "hummm"?
2006-07-06 16:55:51 · answer #10 · answered by 247 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋