I am unsure how to let a coworker know I would be interested in seeing him outside of work. I do not want to cause either one of us problems with other coworkers. I have not worked here very long and to complicate matters more, he is still technically married but has made it very clear(to others)that they no longer live together and are in the process of divorcing. Also, if it makes a difference, we are of different races and are in different positions within the company. Suggestions??
2006-07-06 09:49:47 · 7 answers · asked by laurieanne72 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess I am also asking WHAT I could say or HOW I could test the water to see if he would be interested.
2006-07-06 09:55:36 · update #1
Just be cool about it. Don't let the whole office know and make sure he's on the same page. It can be a lot of fun, seeing each other and hearing the guys talk about what they'd like to do to you, all the while your shagging her brains out without anyone's knowlege.
If he's the type that can keep things quiet, go for it. If not, forget it. It can lead to more trouble than it's worth.
And seriously, does anyone really care about race anymore? I thought we where past that...
2006-07-06 09:58:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You can leave him a note on his desk, just to check the waters and see if he's interested in dating you.
2006-07-06 16:54:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that a tricky situation because if it the same job then it might cause some problem, but if you discipline yourself and keep job stuff with job and dating with dating then maybe but when it come into either place then you looking for trouble
2006-07-06 17:01:17 · answer #3 · answered by bishop4399 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!!!!! AGH!!! I'm not yelling at you I'm yelling cause I have been here!!!! dont do it!!!! There are a million guys out there..and if hes married thats just WRONG!!! It never wors out with co workers, or married men!
2006-07-06 16:54:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont s**t where you eat. Dating in the workplace is a no-no!
2006-07-06 16:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by chocolate_krys2000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
write him an email
2006-07-06 16:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your panties in his desk drawer ;p
2006-07-06 16:53:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋