i have my boyfriend that ive been with for 4 year we are about to get married. but i have a friend who when im with him i forget about my boyfriend. i can see myself through good and bad times with both of them.i love the way both of them are... i think im in love with both of them. what should i do? how do i know which one to choose?
2006-07-06 09:25:42 · 28 answers · asked by chicanita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you truly love your first boy friend, then hash it out with your heart and make a decision. If this other fella has caught your heart, then its best to break it off with the first one so that he doesn't get hurt. Anybody can love two people but then you will have to ask yourself, where does my heart belong too.
2006-07-06 09:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the answer to your question is YES. There is no way you can help or even deny your feelings for either one of them. The only solution I can give you is that you should sincerely think about the future in this situation. Who is the most likely companion you would like to grow old with? Who do you think will still interest you 10 years down the road? Now give that some thought and dont rush to answer it.
2006-07-06 16:34:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you love 1 and LIKE the other, and you just confuse between love and the new exciting seduction.
It's hard to say if you do not say how long you have been friend with the other guy. if it's short time, it's new excitment. if it's long time, it's would probably develope to love and the first one may fade as time goes by.
2006-07-06 16:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Walkin in the sun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as the bible put it "you cannot serve two master at the same time" its kinds difficult situation u have ive heard my friend once advicing the other friend that for her to found out whom she love most is she need to go away for a week and who ever she miss first will be the right guy for her try if this trick will work for u
2006-07-06 16:37:19 · answer #4 · answered by jhey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get "love" mixed up with "committment". You can "love" as many people as you want. Love is just a feeling of deep admiration. You have that for your family, your friends. However, it's the "committment" you need to decide. Which one of these guys are you going to commit your love?
That's the question you should ask yourself.
2006-07-06 16:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Scott D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a date set yet for the marriage? if so maybe you should push it back. it could also be that your male friend is just so understanding & caring that you are getting these feelings, those types of friendships are usually best left as friendships. go out for innocent dinner with each one & just look at there points & what you have in common with them. And just follow your heart, i think you'll find your answer.
2006-07-06 16:33:20 · answer #6 · answered by looking 4 love in the wrong way? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell don't choose either, tell them both that they are your boyfriends and tell them that all three are going to share the bed. lol
If they both love you, wouldn't they like to see you happy with both, lol Since females can out last men. lol
2006-07-06 16:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by houtexknights330 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can love two people at the same time.
Yes you do have to choose one for the other.
No, no one can tell you what to do, you can only do it yourself.
I'm sorry but you are on your own.
But whoever you do choose,
I'm sure it will be the right choice.
No regrets.
2006-07-06 16:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by m_thurson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask that question then you should not be marrying neither one of them because when its the right one you will no it and not be loving two at the same time.apparently you dont really love either of them.
2006-07-06 16:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by lleah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just follow your heart if being with both of them makes you happy then keep dating both of them. You are not married!
2006-07-06 16:38:58 · answer #10 · answered by Rocky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋