ref-why's relationships so bloody hard?

Question

iv just bin goin thru the answers and i keep hearin a few things that ave bin interprated wrong.
i like avein a laugh as in wen i go out i make sure every1's enjoyin emslefs. i never ave a laugh at the girl's expense, i didnt think there was any need to get to kno her any more than i did coz we were mates for 4 years b4 hand.
i dnt kno if its coz im over caring or wat, iv asked her and i never get a proper answer so how am i supposed to kno wat to do to change?

Answer 1

I'm trying to figure out your age and having a hard time. Some people are hooked on the "honeymoon' phase of relationships and once that feeling is gone they tend to move on. I don't think they understand why so it would be impossible to try to tell you why they don't want the relationship anymore.

Remember the thrill when you first started dating? How you couldn't wait to see her or talk to her or be with her. With time everything becomes normal and routine. Some people can't handle that and so they move on to the next adventure.

If you want a relationship to work ... you need to put your heart and soul into it ... you need to want to know everything about them and you need to always try to keep that 'honeymoon' feeling there.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Maybe if the 2 of you sit down and have a chat shell understand

Answer 3

you've got a mate who happens to be a girl and she sees you that way and that's it. this happens so much as you get older and you will find it hard to be with a girl if you have too many girl mates. it's just life sorry to say. never change yourself or you'll get lost and feel so resentful.

Answer 4

Sorry u must be british. And I can't tell since it's not in english either.

Answer 5

Maybe you don't need to change! Maybe you are just dating incompatable girls!

Answer 6

Sounds as if you're just friends.