I was previously engaged to a great guy. We were then living in the same city, I moved to another city for some personal reasons. He is a guy that really don't express his feelings, so when I told him I was leaving, he really didn't show any feelings. So, I left we've been broke up for 4 years now, but now he's seeing someone else (his very 1st love) I realize now I made a mistake and want to be with him. His new girlfriend is not comfortable with us being friends, and so he tells me that we can't talk any more, I guess out of respect for her. He is a really good man, she already have children, he don't have any and neither do I, I think she's only looking for a daddy for her children. I don't know what to do, I still really do love him.. Please Help Me!!!!
2006-07-06 09:16:48 · 10 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then why did u broked up????hmmmmmmmmmm............
2006-07-06 09:21:07 · answer #1 · answered by [4sins]ScoobySergiu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had this man. You broke up with him. It is time that you get real with yourself. I am very surprised that he even is willing to talk to you.
You may have hurt him a lot. Why should he go back you, when all he can be sure of in the future is the same from you . Get real, you dumped him to look for something better. You didn't find it. Now you want him back.
You may think what you want about her, but that is none of your business. They both appear to want to be with each other. Mind your own business.
2006-07-06 09:33:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lord Gordy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look it was a mistake to break up with him and it was also a mistake to wait this long
this is a hard one
look just get him alone away from his wife ask him to lunch or something. tell him how you have made the biggest mistake of your life by breaking up with him and how you should not have waited this long to tell him but
just tell him how you still love him more than anything and would give anything to be back with him
just dont bring his girlfriend into the converstaion
just tell him how you shouldnt have broke up with him
then ask him if he will be with you again
2006-07-06 09:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by trouille123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, thats complicated because you dont know for sure she's just looking for a daddy, you ended it and so he moved on, you cant really expect him to just say ok lets get back together i mean it has been 4 years. thats quite a while. so i guess you should just be happy for him and let him know you do love him and if he ever want to come back to you he can . but since he did after all stop talking to you for her there must be love there .
2006-07-06 09:23:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg ... this situation is crazy but u should open ur eyes.... hes not interest in you as gf...I'm sorry to say it this way but common!!! just see the way he asked u to stop talking to him and bc she asked him!!! that's Lot enough to say about someone who's not showin care for you... i think u really deserve to move on and meet another guy, because if you think this is a good 'man' he its not treating you like one and you someone, as long i can see, with real feelings and who wants and need love... so move on and let them be happy their way... and don't stress more with that situation. get over that
2006-07-06 09:27:04 · answer #5 · answered by *live,laugh,love* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly.... If you love him let him live his life with her. In the end it will work out for the best. Her being insecure is a bad sign already!
2006-07-06 09:21:58 · answer #6 · answered by despondent 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone he moved on like you did. his life is none of your business anymore. dont ruin his life because you did once before, and your life is bad again. its too late you. cant have him anymore. get over it. you really screwed him. now your screwed.
2006-07-06 09:22:03 · answer #7 · answered by jackpack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HAVE BEEN IN THE SAME SITUATION...ITS HARD...BUT U HAVE NO OTHER CHOICE BUT TO MOVE ON.....FIND U ANOTHER GREAT GUY....IF U GET CAUGHT UP,IT WILL BE DISASTEROUS.AVOID THE DRAMA AND HEARTBREAK.....TRUST ME.
2006-07-06 09:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by bonnyfide2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he moved on and that you should too.
Does he know you had a change of heart?
2006-07-06 09:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by roo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you feel and see what he says. If he says no, there is nothing more you can do.
2006-07-06 09:22:19 · answer #10 · answered by hardcoco 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋