theres tis boy and since its summer i havent gotten to talk to him much (except on myspace)
im not sure if he has a girlfriend but last time i checked he had a crush on one of my friends.ive tried a lot of things to make him like me being really bold but im just not sure he gets it.all my friends are rooting for me and i really want him ...so what do i do?
2006-07-06 09:15:48 · 28 answers · asked by fansie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i did NOT meet him on the internet!!!!!!!
i met him at school i have known him for 3 years ok??? seriously!!!!
2006-07-06 09:25:29 · update #1
If u want somebody to love you, first of all, you must love him, that's the only way to get him to like u. Like, Love begets love.
2006-07-06 09:19:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
What for? the guy is dense to your bluntness and therefore not interrested if that is the case. You met him on the net and that is already a bad start. You don't know anything about this boy so be careful with your heart and your emotions. Boys and men tend to play on our emotions and that's a hurting feeling. Just be careful he's not a perve. You never know who you might meet over the net. People do LIE....
2006-07-06 16:21:43 · answer #2 · answered by precious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st and foremost, you can't "make" anyone like you. they either like you or don't. 2nd - just ask him. be straight and ask him if he has any interest in you and if so would he be interested in going out with you sometime. if you don't have the nerve to ask him straight out but you have made it a point to be obvious about how you feel for him then maybe he just isn't into you. Read the book: He's Just Not That Into You: The No-Excuses Truth to Understanding Guys (Hardcover) by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo...it may be of help now or in the future. it's a great read.
2006-07-06 16:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight forward. Stop trying to send out hidden messages, ask, than read his body language. Definitely don't get offended by a negative out come. Guys sometimes need time to process a forward approach from a lady. If he feels the same he will let you know.
2006-07-06 16:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by stubivious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen u need to make a move let him know u like him and just go for it the most he can say is no and yes rejection sucks but if u never try u'll never know so just be brave ask him out and see what happens!~!~! Good Luck!~!~!
2006-07-06 16:23:38 · answer #5 · answered by HelpMe123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are things that you can't do forcefully, you can't forcefully make him to love you or like you. If you love him, then love him from your side, eventually some day he will be able to feel your love from you and respond. In these cases, the more you'll trying to hold on to these thing the more these things will be messed up.
2006-07-06 16:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you can either be patient, or bold. but if you dont get an answer sometime soon i would just look for another. you sound very sweet and there are many boys who would love to be with you. good luck
2006-07-06 16:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by sue d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to TRY to get him to like you, then you are wasting your time...because even if you do "WIN HIM OVER" who wants to be with someone who doesn't really want to be with you...?
Sounds like your friends are out of the loop...I would never advise my friends to go after a guy that wasn't interested!
2006-07-06 16:20:16 · answer #8 · answered by sun kissed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't get it until you spell it out for them. So, tell him you like him in person and watch his response carefully. You will know by his reaction if you have a chance.
2006-07-06 16:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Girasol 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone like you. You have to be YOU and if they like YOU then things will work out. If you turn yourself into something your not, then they will like someone else. You need to be proud of who YOU are and if they don't like YOU they don't deserve or desire you... One or the other. So find someone else who is trying to figure out how he can get you to notice him.
Good Luck
2006-07-06 16:27:39 · answer #10 · answered by ubet426 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and talk to him in real life. Just cause school isn't in doesn't mean you can only have human contact online.
2006-07-06 16:18:45 · answer #11 · answered by s v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋