2006-07-06 09:13:26 · 10 answers · asked by rae rae 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
What ever you do, you listen to me right now. Please talk to your sister and tell her you two need to start getting along with each other now! Do what ever it takes to start getting along with her now. Life is way to short not to.
This is the reason why I am telling you this.
A few of years ago, my brother (older than me)and I had a falling out. We were so mad at each other that we didn't talk for at least a year. Then I heard that a friend of mine lost her brother. This made me start thinking, what would happen if I never made up with my brother and something happened to him, he would be gone for good and I would never get to see or talk to him again.
So one day I took a trip to his house and we talked and made up, We each told the other "I love you". We had been very close since that day. Then not to long ago, I got a call from mom and said that he was sick and in the hospital. We went there to see him and missed seeing him alive by about 30 minutes. He passed away Jan.2,2005 unexpectedly. I'm so thankful that him and I did make up back when we did and I got to spend some fun times with him before we lost him.
So please make up with your sister, you never know when something like that is going to happen. Don't think that for one minute that I am making up this story because I'm not and I can prove what I said about my brother.
2006-07-06 09:40:21 · answer #1 · answered by SapphireB 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have a family party,or you could have a reason like you need the family to stay at your house or The family house because you have something important or you could have some time with your sister for a day or two like shopping, eating out
I`m the same way, but theirs 5 other kids in the family so we usually play a game or a secret game. and we just happen to get over it!! But I`m 10 & she`s 8 so were not that far apart. I`m turning 11 in Nov.
2006-07-06 16:21:06 · answer #2 · answered by samariaaluko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have an older sister and we would constantly argue. She is twelve years older than me and wanted to be apart of everything i did in my life.mainly run it. I learned though that she will never change and that i do love her a lot so i can bare her constant butting into my life. I set boundaries with her and talked things out. Things did improve a little but id rather have her in my life than not talk to her and not see my nieces and nephew. We should forgive and forget and learn to move along.
2006-07-06 16:49:10 · answer #3 · answered by jill1rocks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My little sister is 8 years younger than me, and I think we always fought because we didn't really have much in common. But now that we are older (25 and 17) we have gotten a lot closer because we can understand each other better, and have more to talk about. I am really happy that we've gotten closer - your sister should be your best friend :-)
2006-07-06 16:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by PiccChick12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most sisters have this same problem,but you will find it is so much easier to talk to each other now,and you get along so much better you seem to appreciate each other more.so give it a try!!
2006-07-06 16:18:21 · answer #5 · answered by tina h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Set down and let her know what is on your mind, don't waste your family ties on the past
2006-07-06 16:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by Iron Rider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with my sister and i we always talk about everything and you just need to tell your sister that you love her and you will always be there for her
2006-07-06 16:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by jamie p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start by apologising and asking her forgiveness and saying you want another chance. then shut up and listen.
2006-07-06 16:16:50 · answer #8 · answered by Sufi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IT'S A LOVE HATE THING GOING ON
2006-07-06 16:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by LIZA P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk and be honest.....
2006-07-06 16:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋