she is the only person i have ever had feelings for
2006-07-06 09:07:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It depends on why she doesn't want the relationship. If it's because she still wants to have fun and explore...it makes no sense for you to put yourself aside while she is out having fun. If she is scared because she was hurt in the past or something of that nature, take your time, don't rush her into anything that will only push her away, let her know that you are there to communicate and be honest with, your there should she need a shoulder to lean on, provide her with good love and be a perfect gentleman she should eventually come around. Good Luck.
2006-07-06 09:12:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not into you...
If she wanted you and had the same feelings for you then she would have jumped at the chance to have a relationship with you..
You may only have eyes for you, but you need to take a step back from her and look at it from a different point of view... If the show was on the other foot what would you think?
I'm sure that if you didn't want a relationship with her just yet it would mean that you didn't want a relationship with her period.
It may be hard, but move on to a girl who will love you the same wway you love them! :)
2006-07-06 16:12:13 · answer #2 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I recently went through the same thing. I fell in love with someone last year, around nov. we had some issues, and broke up. then got back together a few months later. all was well, then she told me that she isn't ready for a relationship, but that she still loves me. We broke up, and i made a decision to sever the tie of being together. Although it hurts, i believe it to be the best overall decision. It sucks because i see her every week @ work, but overall, it is better to get out sooner then later. at least this way, there is always the possibility of rekindling later, or if it doesnt work, at least it was an out before it got too emotional.
2006-07-06 16:13:01 · answer #3 · answered by Dal N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be fear of changing hearts? There could be doubts about it when one person has a history and one doesn't.
I have never dated anyone before my husband, he's my first and only. And I am his second girl he dated. During the dating years, I sometimes had doubts about whether or not he was the guy for me. Because I didn't know any better, didn't date around. But why throw away a perfectly fine relationship?
Maybe sit her down and ask her why? Hopefully you'll find out the origin of the problem. Good luck!
2006-07-06 16:13:56 · answer #4 · answered by jade11378 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient, she may have had bad relationships in the past and not want to Rush into another too soon !
Let her know that you "love" if that's the "feeling u have for her, take it slow, and don't think of your "needs' first.
2006-07-06 16:10:52 · answer #5 · answered by Josianne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Accept and respect the friend's right to make such a choice. Continue your pursuit of happiness by exploring other avenues. Life is all about choices. The right to choose is a precious commodity. Be happy and continue life's journey. Enjoy the serendipity.
2006-07-06 16:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by l st_lt_by_th_c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, give her space. Respect her desire to be friends and hope that down the line that she discovers that she feels the same way you do. You definitely can't make someone feel the way you want them to and trying to force someone to will only ruin what you do have with her. If she ultimately feels for you the way you do for her, she'll let you know.
2006-07-06 16:14:15 · answer #7 · answered by ryanb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You move on with your life but remain friends. Maybe that person isn't the one for you. Life is short. Don't wait around for them.
2006-07-06 16:11:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a person that is willing to share your love now
2006-07-06 16:10:08 · answer #9 · answered by nitenurse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have 2 choices and the decision is up to you. You can wait for her or just move on.
2006-07-06 16:12:34 · answer #10 · answered by lazeydazey_63845 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋