i think i am in love with 2 guys is that possible?
2006-07-06 09:01:52 · 31 answers · asked by chicanita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, of course it is :)
2006-07-06 09:03:43 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion, I read somewhere that a person can't have two masters. He will love one & despise the other. I have had two girfriends & two is more trouble than what it's worth. You'll get into arguments with one, while things will be smooth with the other, then it'll yo-yo back and forth between relationship, thus causing further heartaches. Soon the ultimate heartbreak will be that of your own. No matter what your intentions, when you're playing with someone's feelings, yours will be the last one to be played, which is usually the hardest. You should probably stay with the one you found first, or the one that found you. If you are fickled & can't make up your mind, then maybe you should try dating. Dating can be fun, only you don't have a serious commitment. This way you can keep a lookout when the real one comes along. Sometimes, another relationship comes into the picture to tell us to either get out, or appreciate what we have in that person, in which we've been taken for granted. You'll never see the good in things, if you're too busy looking for the bad. Have a great day! Be Cool!
2006-07-06 09:11:36 · answer #2 · answered by chicanomedic 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can but out of the two you do love one more than the other. It just doesn't hit you right off. You feel like you love them the same and you want to be with both but after a long evaluation your heart will tell you which one is better for u. Just don't let it take too long you don't want anyone to get hurt and possibly you be left without anyone.
2006-07-06 09:15:09 · answer #3 · answered by devandb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible, but obviously complicated. Usually an individual will have a stronger feeling for one than the other. I don't think society is ready yet for the plurality of marriage, especially the one girl and two guys scenario. Usually that is associated with the world of pornography. But sure, love knows no bounds. Good luck in figuring it all out.
2006-07-06 09:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by Love of Truth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah. Because there are so many type of love people feel towards each other. You need to decide how to distinguish between you feelings. If you are IN love with someone else, then they are all you see, and you know you want to spend EVERY second with them...there's no time for anyone else. If you just plain love someone then they make you very happy, and you enjoy being around them. Which one can you see growing old with. Having children with? taking care of you while you're pregnant, or very very ill?? HE's the one. Don't let HIM go.
2006-07-06 09:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Rolla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see how that's possible
We can send a man to the moon and clone sheep
but there is no way to love 2 people at the same time
2006-07-06 09:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, you can love only one and one person alone. Can you choose between them? If not, you don't truly love either. Love is a feeling thats totally and solely for one person. What you have is a complicated and confused situation. Sort yourself out before you hurt two people and yourself in the process.
2006-07-06 09:07:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you may be confuse, you see to love and to like is not the same thing you think you love this two guys but take a time and think see what you like better from one of both you see youll like some things from one and some things from the other there youll find out which one you like best and which one you love compare them your heart will show you true love .
2006-07-06 09:10:39 · answer #8 · answered by sweethot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not love. You are infatuated by them both, you like them a lot, you find them both having potential relationship characteristics... but no, you can't love them both, okay, mabye as two men, but not IN LOVE with them both. You will have to choose one. That's life, really. Just be fair, you can't have your cake and eat it, too. I'm sure you've heard that before. Good luck.
2006-07-06 09:06:38 · answer #9 · answered by cinney_2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I believe it is possible but I don't think that you would ever be truly happy in these relationship for you can not have your cake and eat it too for someone is going to get hurt and love can be a dangerous game so please be careful and maybe consider dropping one of them.
2006-07-06 09:06:01 · answer #10 · answered by missie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm, I dont think you love them , but the atrrubutes that they both have, unfortunately there isnt a guy that has both of them, and to look for him...well, its not gonna work. Why dont you take time off from both, see which one you see yourself with the most and miss the most.
2006-07-06 09:05:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋