Strongly enough my friends have taken somewhat of an interest in my "personal" life. Apparently somehow getting a girlfriend is somehow going to make my life a lot better, its somewhat of a long story. The short version is, I've had one girlfriend my entire life, 4 years ago, and I'm 22 now, so I've been having somewhat of a problem with getting rejected by people...rather often....really rather often.
Anyways my friends said that maybe I should start off with something easier and go to a bar and concentrate on the somewhat "less sober" women. I'm not really sure this is a good idea, but then again trying to be myself didn't work, and I'm not sure the treating women approach (although it DOES work) is my thing.
I’ve got somewhat of a social phobia so taking to people, especially women really isn’t easy for me. And no I'm not looking for sex, just some type of relationship.
2006-07-06 08:53:10 · 5 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not looking for friends, I'M ALWAYS THE STUPID FRIEND!
"Oh I like you, but I think we would benift more as friends"
"Well I'm not emotionally open right now, but we can stay friends"
"We should start as friends first (NEVER goes anywhere)"
I've heard a ton of them
2006-07-06 09:02:45 · update #1
No, I don't have any girls numbers. At all, most (actually every one that I knew of) of the girls from high school either didnt want to talk to me, I got beat up by their boyfriends, or they kicked me in the crotch really really hard.
2006-07-06 09:04:04 · update #2
Its been 4 years, and one month on the 25 of July. Being myslef DOESN'T WORK.
2006-07-06 09:04:58 · update #3
Sorry, 4 years, and 2 months on the 25th of July since the last one.
2006-07-06 09:09:10 · update #4
You're missing out. Don't be afraid of rejection. I will be the Great and Powerful Oz, you will be the Lion. All you need is some courage. I won't give you a medal because courage is inside you. If you can't find some, then fake it, but you have to get past that first step. Woman love confident men. Even if you are shy 99.9% of the time, she will respect the fact that you bucked up and asked her out for that .1%.
2006-07-06 09:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by theswedishfish710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dating on the internet is an okay thing but only for responsable people so think it through before you go to a bar to hook up even though thats how alot of relationship starts ....then they get divorced.......do you have a girls phone # from high school or anything
2006-07-06 16:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a great idea...build some confidence and focus on having fun. Women are attracted to fun...no one wants to be with a downer all the time.
2006-07-06 15:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by The Doctor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey D, you can meet lots of friends right here. You shouldn't follow your guy pals, you could land in some SERIOUS problems.
2006-07-06 15:59:07 · answer #4 · answered by Latoya L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you build a haouse on a weak base it'll collapse.. i believe you need to stick to being yourseld.. and don't do what isn't your thing.. you don't want to change who you are just to find someone right? .. trust me you'll find someone .. just be patient.. and try to relax.. it seems that girls are looking for fake stuff these days.... good luck to you
2006-07-06 16:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Ninja CK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋