My boyfriend and I has been together for six months now. I been just having doubts that he deserve better than me. Do get me wrong i love him and he make me happy. just those little doubts is my only problem.
2006-07-06 08:46:54 · 24 answers · asked by aznflippgurl 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i felt that too at one point, like he was too good to want to be with someone like me, but then I learned. If you dont have confidence in yourself, nobody wil have confidence in you. Its only been six months, my six months turned into seven years with my fiance, so honey, its ok to have your doubts, but remember you have to love yourself before you can learn to love somebody else or have somebody else love you. Hey, you never know he may have doubts too. If you love each other and each of you are happy, in time you will feel like you were meant for each other! Good Luck.
2006-07-06 08:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by shawny2623 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well there are some serious self-esteem issues going on in your head. You should not worry about what he thinks or if he is too good for you, but start thinking of what makes you feel good about you. Start going to the gym, take up a sport (rock climbing, tennis anything; this should be fun and you should feel you’re good at it or at least enjoy it a lot) get a tan & whiten your teeth (this one is always great and it’s easy) If you are worried that he is too good for you that is going to start showing and you’ll end up with a weird vibe between you then that’ll end up bad too. If you feel good about yourself then even if the relationship still doesn’t work out you still got you (who you should love just as much!)
2006-07-06 08:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by Bob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would like to get some more information on the situation but from what you give me, i dont think that you should doubt yourself. And a question for you is have you asked him how he feels? If i can be of more service email me at aurelius_kyoukutei@yahoo.com
I would like to help. I have been there.
2006-07-06 08:51:27 · answer #3 · answered by robert v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You either just have a low self esteem or you feel guilty for some reason. Don't dwell. Life is short and if you're happy then don't worry because that won't solve anything.
2006-07-06 08:52:03 · answer #4 · answered by emjay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem it's not that he is to good 4 you it's your self-esteem an thinking are to low about yourself find ways an thing that help boost your confidence an then you may feel better an also wear things that make you feel confident an pretty about yourself
2006-07-06 08:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by vicsha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think about it, I know easier said then done. Just think of it this way... He can decide for himself who's good enough for him. So if he thinks he deserves you then you are a lucky lady. So try not to think about it. He can make up his own mind and I think he has.
2006-07-06 08:50:24 · answer #6 · answered by B.J. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously suffer from low self-esteem and a fear of abandonment. I suggest you make a list of all your good qualities and everything you bring to the relationship. You are a good a worthy person!
2006-07-06 08:50:07 · answer #7 · answered by teena9 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm feeling RedSoxFan's answer. i'm also involved with a guy whom i feel is too good for me, but's it's because i've never been with a man of maturity and that's what i'm feeling...it's not so much him, but the fact that he's a real *** man and not down for games and his level of maturity is greater than the jerks i've dated in the past. embrace it, for i believe all good things happen in due time and girlfriend...this may be your time.
2006-07-06 08:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Blaque 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont imagine you exagerated about the myspace bulletin. yet i imagine that you adult males dont have a huge situation. I couldnt truly comprehend your question. yet I dont imagine he become attempting to cheat on you or something, perhaps he felt insecure and printed something like that to sense extra acceptable about himself. You shouldnt be mad at him for lengthy. I propose as you stated he did say stunning issues and also you already know he wouldnt cheat on you, so that you almost have not something to fret about. and in case you get mad for issues that he doesnt imagine are huge deals, then thats general because you both have diverse perspectives of issues. communicate with him, and in simple terms sense free! believe him!
2016-10-14 04:43:09 · answer #9 · answered by porterii 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do u deserve someone better then him or u have doubts on his feelings for u? share your fears to him..
2006-07-06 08:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋