Why would a man suddenly go for wam bam thank you maam sex instead of showing some interest in pleasing me with foreplay first? He says tired, which he really is working hard, long hours. How do you know when he's REALLY all about just getting the sex?
2006-07-06 08:40:54 · 21 answers · asked by trooper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When we first got together, he was all about foreplay. Couldn't get enough of me. Then, I got disinterested because of outside stress. He confessed to me that he HAS to have it or his temper gets out of control. Now HE'S the one making excuses.
2006-07-06 08:46:21 · update #1
Did I mention I'm ALWAYS am on top?! And I pay all the bills?
2006-07-06 08:50:45 · update #2
Speaking from a mans point of view it is about the sex, the climax, however I know women need the romance and touching.A sensitive guy will realize this and respect it. Sometimes you have to give them a little hint, hint, hint.....
2006-07-06 08:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by hunterman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he is just selfish. Although there are times that after a long day at work, we do get tired, yet sex is still the appeal, thus we may do the "wam bam thank you maam" as up put it, but if he is a real man, he'll spend a good bulk of time with just the forplay.
2006-07-06 15:45:29 · answer #2 · answered by Dal N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are always on top that seems to be a good sign that he has his interests in mind. Sometimes foreplay is necessary, sometimes it isn't - but I can't imagine that it NEVER is.
But I think the bigger deal is that you are paying all the bills! That, to me, surely sounds like he is a selfish loser. Splitting is one thing. There are better guys than this one.
2006-07-07 19:07:39 · answer #3 · answered by Corporate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not initiate the foreplay yourself? Take control let him just lay there and see where it takes ya, he's gotten comfortable with you and you allow it. Spice things up, get in touch with your sexual imagination and go from there. He could just be tired who knows, or possibly he just needs some leading in the right direction of what to do.
2006-07-06 15:53:56 · answer #4 · answered by ToYsTeMpTer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's fricken tired , after working long hours would you want to come home do all this foreplay or just get right to the good stuff . i think when he's not as tired you'll see the real him , just give him a chance
2006-07-06 15:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried role reversal and let him just lay there? Let the man sleep! Jeesh you want a man to provide and have financial security then get upset when he is tired for doing what you want. Women! When you all figure yourselves out let me know.
2006-07-06 15:48:31 · answer #6 · answered by NubbY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of men get comfortable and it's warm-bam sex all the time. Take the initiative to spice things up yourself
2006-07-06 15:44:11 · answer #7 · answered by Teresa M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A lot of it has to do with you. Make foreplay last longer. Do the seduction act.....make him earn it, work for it. Use your imagination. Do not let him penetrate until you are ready.
2006-07-06 15:43:34 · answer #8 · answered by rwhatley65 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me when a man is willing to wait until u get yours first then he really does care but if he beats u every time he's selfish and just wanted to hit it and quit it
2006-07-06 15:45:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boring
2006-07-06 15:44:09 · answer #10 · answered by redhead 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋