question on love, finding....?

Question

/c you are looking too hard. The wonderful/best men find you sweetie, not the other way around

STOP LOOKING!!!
You know when you can't find something, and you know you put it exactly where you looked the 1st time, yet no matter how long or how hard you look, it's impossible to find? Then, one day it dawns on you, and you go right to it...same with finding a mate. Let him come to you, don't go out looking for something in vein cause you usually just end up wasting your precious time with jerks who aren't even worth it. You'll be sent exactly what you're looking for, there's someone for everyone, just be patient...
I think it could be. He found me first. But now I have to find him. I can't wait and do nothing, which is about my only option left and it's not working either. I believed for a long time, I still do, I just can't entirely leave it up to fate or life or patience or anything. See my other q's for info. I'm still young, under 25. But I mean we could date or at least talk

I've had feeling for him for close to 6 1/2 to 7 years now. See my other questions for the info, need helping finding some1, his name etc.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=An_jfzwJNTgBgyfJvMGbb3fsy6IX?qid=20060610094442AA43Gmj

and there, I think it's a dream about his friend, but it mentions my feelings. These are my feelings, I don't know about his so much but I had a lot of dreams about him feeling the same way. Then I guess, they are not literal. And my opinions and questions. I got 1 answer, follow ur heart. It is him. But I dunno should I even try for anything less? Or some1 less? Open my mind? Or stick w my gut, I know it's rare, but for me he's the only one.

Answer 1

If it's meant to be, it will be...I promise. There are no guarantees in life, nor will anything last forever. If he found you once, he'll find you again. Have you ever heard the saying, "if you love something, let it go, and if it shall ever return, you'll know it was meant to be?" Try that. You'll HAVE to let go for the time being (considering he's nowhere to be found right now), and move on. You can't live your life day by day wondering, worrying whether or not he's gonna walk back into your life, you must date other people. Don't be skeptical when dating, you may meet the love of your life (when you're not looking). Just keep an open mind, heart, and soul. Don't hold yourself back from other opportunities in hopes this "one" will show up tomorrow, and the next day, etc...You'll waste your entire life WAITING...I'm telling you, it's way too short to do that! Just take one day at a time, and enjoy every second as if it's your last. Listen to that song "Butterfly" by Mariah Carey, and maybe it'll help you like it helped me...Good luck in love and life! Stay sweet!

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