i met this guy on the internet and he's a really nice guy he respets me compliments me and stuff and i really like him. but i have a bf and he has a gf. and we really like eachother and i'm 14 and hes 16 so should i still talk to him or not tak to him to all.
2006-07-06 08:06:54 · 47 answers · asked by baby girl 16 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think talking is harmless enough as long as it doesnt get u in trouble with your boyfriend or him with his girlfriend.. its up to u all to decide if the other people involved are important enough to keep around or if u think u make a better couple. either way be careful to think about wat u really want
2006-07-06 08:10:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I think if you feel in the very least a little uncomfortable. It's probably a sign within yourself that no it is not right. You are very young and maybe you shouldn't have a boyfriend and just have friends. Maybe you are not ready. Anyhow aside from the topic be very careful with people you meet online sometimes things are not what you might think they are. Oh once again I think you are a young girl but you should start to learn on being trustworthy and being loyal to people you care about, and the other dude had a girlfriend he can't be that great.
2006-07-06 08:17:16 · answer #2 · answered by martica595500 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all talk to your boyfriend. Then secondly, remember there are predators all around on the internet. This is not a joke. They are everywhere, and this guy could easily just be pretending to be a kid cuz he gets his jollies off it. Don't mess around with this kind of thing, if you really think this guy is aight and ur sure let ur parents have a look at it or something. I know you are 14 and can think for yourself, but these people practice praying on children all day long. Hope this doesn't offput you from people, but i hope you never encounter a predator either. Good luck, stay safe.
2006-07-06 08:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by stratocastinator 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As an outsider, i cant convince you not to talk to him. What i can do is give you an idea of what could happen and i am sure you have heard the stories about those weird people on the Internet. I wont go into detail but i will give you some advice. Just be careful about what you give to him. Don't let him know anything too personal.
2006-07-06 08:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by robert v 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be careful who you speak to on the Internet, that could just be some cover for this guy to want and meet you somewhere alone. Take my advice, people on the Internet are not truthful. You don't even really know if he is 16. I say stay with your bf because there are many mental people out in internet land. There are many child molestors who say that they are 16 to try and lure you to meet them. You don't even know this guy only what he betrays to be to you on the internet.
2006-07-06 08:12:35 · answer #5 · answered by crash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not suggest either of you start dating until you are both single. You aren't supposed to be the girl on the side, you're supposed to be "the one." I would suggest the two of you try forming a friendship and see where this goes. You have years and years of life yet to live and settling for one person right now would be limiting yourself. Maybe you and this guy are meant for each other, but that doesn't mean you're meant to be right now. Become friends, see where it goes.. besides, most of the best romances blossom from friendship. Good luck, honey.
2006-07-06 08:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by Genevieve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well no, you shouldn't. And you already know that, or you wouldn't be having the twinges of guilt that made you ask.
What you most importantly should not be doing is meeting guys on the internet. You have no idea who he really is, and how many little girls he may have already befriended, lured or trapped, and dismembered their bodies all over a couple states, while he "respects them and pays them compliments". Bad guys don't treat you rudely or mean if they want to lure you in!
BE MORE CAREFUL, PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-06 08:12:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i'm 14 too btw. you really shouldnt be talking to random people online. for all you know he could be a 45 year old rapis or a 78 year old man trying to get some action from a teenager. it's really unsafe so u should definately stop talking to him, especially since both of u are already in relationships. ♥
2006-07-06 08:30:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not continue the relationship because if he will leave his current GF for a internet chick what makes you think he won't leave you for a girl he's already met or another internet chick. Is his name Jonny Benio?
2006-07-06 08:10:42 · answer #9 · answered by collegegirlkp93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres nothing wrong w/ talking to another guy. Theres no rule in a relationship that ur not allowed to talk to other guys!!!!!!!!!! So keep talking to him and if u feel even more feelings 4 him in time break up w/ ur bf and tell him
2006-07-06 08:10:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask your self- why would it feel wrong- there is NOTHING wrong with friendship of the opposite sexes....... BUT if you have made it so there should be something wrong- then yes...
BUT it is totally normal and healthy to have a relationship with someone with out the expectations or rational that there is anything more than a relationship of friendship
2006-07-06 08:11:20 · answer #11 · answered by oregonmadisons 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋