its been like, 3 months since we broke up. i know i should just get over it by now, but its hard since ive liked him for like, ever! One of his friends (also my friend too) told me that he was dating some other girl. (shes in 8th grade, will be a freshmen this coming year and me and him is gonna be sophomores) Hes even told me that im better than her but if thats so then why is he with her and not me? I want to get over him because i want to be happier with omeone else instead. HELP ME!!
2006-07-06 08:06:48 · 14 answers · asked by *Chelsie* 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's so hard to get over a guy you really like... trust me, i know. But I think the best thing to do is detach yourself from him and start looking for someone else. Flirt a lot! This does two things: 1) gets you a new and better guy and 2) might make him jealous enough to get you back. And if you have a better guy you'll have loads of fun rejecting the old one with a "too late".
2006-07-06 08:13:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I was with a boyfriend for a year when I was 15/16, (and many more since then), but I remember that one the most cos it was the first time I"d being dumped and he was what I 'thought' was perfect.
You just need time, don't ever be alone, be with friends when ever possible - those who make you happy, and don't go near him, try not to be around people who are in love and don't watch tv movies that are love stories. You just have to move on and these sort of things help. Keep away from anything that triggers you to think of him. Also, burn photos, throw out love letters etc.
Goodluck, it's tough, but you'll get there! :D
2006-07-06 15:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. He didn't care that he hurt your feelings or even try to work things out so you both could be together. He's moved on and so should you. You're young and have your whole life ahead of you. Live life to the fullest and date other people. Don't settle for less. If things were meant to be he'll be back. Don't put your life on hold. Worry about getting your education and make yourself happy. Take care!
2006-07-06 15:12:10 · answer #3 · answered by nikkismom0624 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life's all about pressing on and moving forward to better yourself. Don't let this guy keep you down in the dumps. He's not worthy of you. Just move on with your life, don't let him know that you're even bothered by it anymore. Sometimes just not showing your broken-heartedness to an ex makes them want you just cause you don't want them anymore. There are plenty of other opportunities out there, don't worry about guys, keep your grades up and be happy. We're not here for long, so enjoy it while you got it!
2006-07-06 15:12:22 · answer #4 · answered by Shining Ray of Light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself very busy! Workout, join a sport, do a hobby, study more, read and do them all at once! Just focus on your self improvement and you will be a better person all around, you won't have time to think about your ex and you will meet new people and potentially a new romance! ;-)
2006-07-06 15:11:53 · answer #5 · answered by Rolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep yourself busy to keep your mind occupied. Try to meet new people, and try not to get info on your ex. If you are always trying to find out what he's doing, you'll never focus on yourself or anybody new that you may meet. Hang in there! It's not always easy, but with time, good friends, and keeping busy, it will get easier!
2006-07-06 15:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by Sally Mae 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember that he's a guy who doesn't know what he wants~
except those "at the moment" urges...
Example: Says one thing & does another. Reason? Probably those 'urges' ...
not something YOU need to be involved with~
He's taking care of himself ...You take care of yourself !
In a few short years, you won't even remember his name!!!
You'll be excited over your new Love...PROMISE
2006-07-06 15:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by Merry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
will what i think is just don't think about your ex because then you might end up crying. and just try to go out with someone else so you can get your mind off of your ex.
2006-07-06 15:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by j.strack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all u got to do is act like u dont care n eventually u wont
2006-07-06 15:09:26 · answer #9 · answered by lilsexyshortie209 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the boy who told you that he is with a nother girl
2006-07-06 15:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by kayla w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋