He's mother took him away when he was 7 taking him away from his friends and family to a complete different country.
He's father left him before he was boarn, he has never seen neither a picture of him. He was kind of sexually molested by a bigger kid and that left him with fear of someone touching him again for all his life, he even feared he's own mother could do that. In the new country he was treated with racism and other kids went as far as crying if they had to sit by him. When he's friends were mean to him he gived them money so that they would like him again, they also used to force him to blaspheme God in exchange of friendship. Is this an okay childhood? Will this kid be just fine?
2006-07-06 08:05:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Education & Reference ➔ Other - Education
Its up to the kid really
2006-07-06 08:08:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It certainly sounds like he has had a rough childhood.
There is always hope. There are many people who have overcome such terrible pain in their childhood and become productive and happy adults.
The only way for him to avoid making choices that will ruin his future is for him to let go of his past.
Seek knowledge.
Find a socially acceptable career that interests him and pursue it.
Get counseling to learn more about himself and about how to have positive social interactions with others.
Avoid being around people making bad choices (like gang members).
Very easy to write. A difficult and painful road to actually follow... but not as difficult and painful as drugs, violence, prison, and an early death.
I hope he decides to focus on his future, rather than dwelling on the pain of his past. Having survived so much, there must be a strong, intelligent, wonderful person underneath all the pain.
2006-07-06 21:34:41 · answer #2 · answered by spedusource 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he has had his fair share of problems, but then most kids have some of the same issues and are fine. It is up to the individual. Alot can be learned from lifes lessons and it is how you react to them and use them that matters.
2006-07-06 15:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by tavgirl1954 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I'd say that was a pretty rough life but it depends if you wanna look to the future or live in the past. I wish him a long and happy fulfilled life tho. good luck
2006-07-06 15:10:32 · answer #4 · answered by tweetypie88888 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All kids have problems. More than likely he will be fine.
2006-07-06 15:12:27 · answer #5 · answered by Lunagirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have to ask, i'd say yes
2006-07-06 15:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋