2006-07-06 08:03:35 · 29 answers · asked by Quiet V 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to make a decision or dump both because that is cruel
2006-07-06 08:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by soul patrol baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isnt a bad thing at all you could be getting love and attention from one guy, which is exactly what you are lacking from the other guy. Liking two men at once is the hardest thing in the world, but you have to follow your heart because you will always wonder what if...and you cant live with that on your conscience forever, you will die very lonely. I know I called off a marriage simply because of a gut feeling I had about someone who worked across the street...and you know what we are happily married today and we never looked back!!! Follow your heart, it never fails you!!
2006-07-06 15:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by aimblueyez 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not, you can like 100 men at the same time! Is it bad to like a guy when you have a boyfriend? That's a little bad, but as long as you don't hook up with that guy, you're fine! Don't worry about it, liking people isn't a problem. At least you have plenty of options!!
2006-07-06 15:06:36 · answer #3 · answered by ericalsmith2004 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not that it's a bad thing. Liking more then one man isn't abnormal. Are you dating more then one man? Not that it matters, men do it all the time. Just be smart about it! Unlike a man, be honest. If you're not exclusive with any of these men then you have no obligation to be faythful to either of them unless they think you're exclusive because you said you were. Don't be like a man, be true to them & yourself. Unless you're good @ lying and playing the roll then hey more power to you, however, if you're not then you're only putting yourself in a position of losing them both/all. Lying gets you no where. If you're dating them all because you're trying to see which you prefer then that's understandable too. all i can say is be smart, be honest and good luck!
2006-07-06 15:28:47 · answer #4 · answered by HopeThisHelps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont understand why all these people say its ok to like them but not date them....that's stoopid. My parents used to date several different people at the same time. I thnk that's kewl. They were dating each other and getting serious about each other, but they still went out with other people. Most ppl my age cant understand how that's possible. Its easy....people are not property. That's the way most ppl see it, tho. If I go out with you, youre mine and you cant belong to anyone else. DUMB! I think its great to date several people, but everyone else just wants to have sex and get all serious.
I think the reason people dont want to date a bunch of people is that theyre affraid the person theyre dating wont have sex with them any more, that theyll lose their free nookie.
Just hang, get to know people, dont take dating so serious. When you begin to like someone more than someone else after a bunch of dates, then maybe slow it down. but make sure you let everyone you date know where you stand...that you are going to date a bunch of ppl and if they arent kool with that then BYE.
Anyway, thats what I think.
2006-07-06 15:34:34 · answer #5 · answered by luvtinynips 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! It happens all the time....what you do with it however, is what really matters. It's one thing to like 2 guys at the same time and another thing to play around with both the guys at the same time!
2006-07-06 15:05:45 · answer #6 · answered by Debz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not a bad thing. Theres alot of choices out there and it is hard to settle for one person. I dont believe it is wrong to even date them all and see who you match up with as long as they understand where you stand in the relationship. Chances are your not going to equally like all of them. Test the waters before you jump in!!
2006-07-06 15:15:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no as long as u r not going out with two guys at the same time
2006-07-06 15:05:24 · answer #8 · answered by wen godzilla 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not a bad thing to be attracted to 2 at a time. its a bad thing to get into relationships w/ each and do the whole lie and cheat thing.
2006-07-06 15:06:55 · answer #9 · answered by mary r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad Thing? Heck No! Good Thing? Heck No! Lol, iv'e been guilty of this very thing...I guess when you start acting on these feelings with more than one, well then I can see it being more than a bad thing....
2006-07-06 15:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by myopinion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not. the story of my life is liking a thousand people at one time. just dont go out w/ 2 guys at the same time. not cool. â¥
2006-07-06 15:11:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋