Can this kid be affected?

Question

He's mother took him away when he was 7 taking him away from his friends and family to a complete different country.
He's father left him before he was boarn, he has never seen neither a picture of him. He was kind of sexually molested by a bigger kid and that left him with fear of someone touching him again for all his life, he even feared he's own mother could do that. In the new country he was treated with racism and other kids went as far as crying if they had to sit by him. When he's friends were mean to him he gived them money so that they would like him again, they also used to force him to blaspheme God in exchange of friendship. Is this an okay childhood? Will this kid be just fine?

Answer 1

This kid is being extorted out of his money. He needs counselling and a new set of friends.

Answer 2

He has been affected already. He is a very insecure person and will never trust no one. He will grow thinking no one is sincere and only superficial things are important.
Racism and sexual molestation are the main concerns. Even though he may be insecure, he may have a lot of anger and frustration inside. He may want to let everything out in different ways and no necessarily in a good way.
His mom should try to take him to a different environment, something positive, sign him up for music lessons o art lessons, those things are good for children. He needs psychological care ASAP before it is too late.

Answer 3

This kid doesn't sound fine if he is paying other kids to be his friend. It's a rough life alright. You don't say how old he is now. He could turn out just fine, but I don't think he'll be a very nice person. He's going to have alot of chips on his shoulder. Maybe he could get involved in some sort of hobbies,.like Karate to build character, or a church group, or sports of some sort to help him find some definition in life. I hope he turns out okay.

Answer 4

Not exactly he need to be in some counseling or some sort of moral support to deal with the problem of molestation with couseling he will learn that it is okay I know from my own personal experience and he needs to learn that he can find friends without money or any other form bribery. He also need to be alowed to contact his father. It is essential>

Answer 5

You know it all depends on the person and if people want to help him. A way that i can see him beating all this is persevering through all his troubles, get a good education that would eventually get him a great job. And about the sexual abuse and torment by people, he should phase them and not be afraid of it and maybe even see a psychiatrist to help him out. But it all depends on the person. It is never impossible for a person to get over a problem.

Answer 6

Thats a very sad story but like all stories there is an end.For this person , yes I would say it "was" a tough life and if he is old enough to realize we are here to experience all things good or bad , than he should use his time and energy on trying to heal and understand.Its time to put bad experiences to good use.That is one of the great things of living ,being able to change bad to good.

Answer 7

I think that he may need alot of counseling and alot of love, I am really sad to read this. That is the best advice that I can give. Always make sure that you know who your kids friends are, and know their parents, he do sent have friends that way, kids can be cruel.

Answer 8

I would highly recommend that this kid get some counseling and the sooner the better. Otherwise all of this will build in him and one day he'll just explode, and then look out.

Answer 9

You're either incredibly stupid or you have making up questions just to see what kind of reactions you'll get.

Answer 10

ok...no....i shouldnt have even answered this question, but i felt the need to enlighten your poor soul with some moral view