how do i get over not wanting to kiss my b.f i never want to kiss him my friends call me prude. how do i get over it ?
2006-07-06 07:55:13 · 11 answers · asked by HAILEY S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first of all, dont listen 2 ur friends...because dey wudnt call u prude if dey know wat friendship means...second of all, its ur choice whether u wanna kiss him or not ...if u tink u shudnt because sum1 critisizes u well maybe u guyz shudnt be dating
2006-07-06 07:58:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out why you don't like kissing. I have a friend who is a bit of a germaphobic, so never kisses because while you can wash your hands after you shake someone's hand, there's no easy or polite way to wash your lips after a kiss. It's just something that's a part of her and her boyfriend accepts that.
2006-07-06 15:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by cmriley1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing your age it is hard to answer this, because there could be two explanations. If you are very young, like jr. high or early high school, then it is normal not to want to kiss him...your hormones aren't there yet. However, if you are older, then you should probably break up with him because if the sexual attraction isn't there then you have a friendship, not a dating relationship.
2006-07-06 14:58:31 · answer #3 · answered by Alex K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have read all the questions you have asked and from that i can say that you are not that into your boyfriend.you didnot see him for a month and probably you have moved on. he on the other hand is still in love with you.kissing, hugging, having sex, all of these emotions come from love. you dont love him as a lover. maybe you like him as a friend. thats why you dont feel the eagerness to feel his lips.do yourself a favour, leave him. he will be releaved and so will you. you are only 13, it is too soon for you to have serious relationship. so have many friends, study hard and wait for true love when you turn 18.dont listen to your friends. they are too advanced for their age.
2006-07-06 15:08:31 · answer #4 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps your just not attracted to him as much as you think you are. I know whenever I see my man I want to feel his lips on mine. Even when he is pissing me off. But I am very attracted to him.
I don't think your a prude you just are not that interested.
2006-07-06 14:57:43 · answer #5 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you have some hang up or you're not feeling the romance of the relationship. If it's lacking romance, is it you in general or that he doesn't bring it out in you? Many questions you have to ask yourself and honestly answer.
2006-07-06 15:02:20 · answer #6 · answered by Dale P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes probs not mr. rite. you have to feel like you want to be with him all the time, like you belong togteher. but if you dont, hes not the rite guy. Just tell him. He will get over it. You cant make yourself love someone! It comes from your heart and soul!
2006-07-06 15:00:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are prude...what the hell is wrong with kissing him? i mean dear god girl show a little affection towards him....
2006-07-06 14:58:25 · answer #8 · answered by lastofodyinbreed 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he really loves you, kiss him, otherwise don't give attention to your friends and be relax,it is not difficult to control emotions once you understand these
2006-07-06 15:21:19 · answer #9 · answered by UnderstandingLife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you need some counseling, or maybe you are just not into him.
2006-07-06 14:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by whatdoiknow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋