2006-07-06 07:51:56 · 57 answers · asked by Mookie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All men are dogs. Woof! Woof!
2006-07-06 07:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by U. N. 3 · 3⤊ 3⤋
Good men are all around you. The problem is most women don't know how to spot him. See woman that I encounter that are looking for a good man are the once who are looking for that man who is either popular, rich, a thug and beats you, or the one who want get off his *** and get a job. Women are good at finding these men and why are women good at finding these men, cause women are searching for a good man. I say, don't search, let it come naturally. The best man for a woman is those that start out as friends first. Trust me, these are the ones that know you best. Try becoming friends with a man first and let him know that up front. If he is cool with that then that is a good man, if not then you should move on. Trust me, the friend ship will and can lead into a relationship. It depends if you want it too.
2006-07-06 08:04:34 · answer #2 · answered by smiddro 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is a good man hard to find?.......well, one of the answers is because most girls don`t really know what to look for in a guy. i admit that a lot of guys are macho no-brainers and have no idea how to show a lady respect.......but there are not all like this!!
on the other hand, there`s another problem:
in the 9th grade a became colegue with this girl named Ramona...we never really had much in common, an we rarely talked to each other. but after a few years [the 12 grade] we started chatting on yahoo messenger [long story...]. we became really close and startded sharing intimet thoughts and problems.....actually we became so close that now we have been toghether for 3 months :D.
the moral of the story is that sometimes you mey find a partner in the one person you never really tought about!
my advice to all girls: stop looking after cool guys and guys that are superficial......real guys will always try to help you out when ou have a problem and will talk to you when you are down. a macho type kinda` guy cand never acomplish this! [and believe me, i know.....i see them everyday]
you should test a guy before you get too close to him. Hand him a personal problem and see if/how he handles it. maybe he is up for the job and diserves a chance. try some philosophical ideas and be amazed if he likes the challenge :P.....
anyway, you get the main idea.....if you don`t, sorry for wasting your time.
this is a really big question and i you would require like 20 pages to talk about this.....but time is not on my side, so.....:P
PS: all of this is based on personal experience and real facts :)
2006-07-06 08:35:03 · answer #3 · answered by toshz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cuz that's how it is, That's how they are. A man is 25, and means a good guy so I don't think man is the right term. I'm not 25 so I'm a girl, it's a guy then. I found a decent one. Even better then decent, he's good, He's great!
Probably because there's no such thing (anymore).
If they're good, they're gay. Sucks these days.
cuz most men r idiots :P
Because you're probably not looking in the right place
What they said too. And it happens when u least expect it.
2006-07-06 07:56:01 · answer #4 · answered by samantha wilson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same reason that a hard man is so good to find.
2006-07-06 07:54:45 · answer #5 · answered by Besmirched Tea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you mean Why is a hard man so good to find??
2006-07-06 07:54:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're not hard to find. You might looking at the wrong places, but eventually your good man will come it's only a matter of time.
2006-07-07 10:16:53 · answer #7 · answered by chilly_dogs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not like you ladies make it easy on us. We have to jump through ten kinds of hoops just to get a date. Also, it is tough because as others have said here, you ladies tend to like the bad boys. We good guys seem to always be the friend in the situation, which by the way, sucks. And I never understood being afraid to date a friend...aren't you supposed to be best friends with the one you love? It would make sense to me, because you are always honest and can easily confide in a friend. That would at least give a relationship a foot to stand on in the beginning. So you know what ladies, quit bitching about the bad boys if your going to date them. Also, try dating a friend, who knows, they are a friend for a reason and maybe that would be enough to start something that could last a while...Oh yeah, we good guys are not all gay either, some of us still like to muff dive.
2006-07-06 08:07:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a bit like getting the answers to an election poll. If you do have a large enough sample you will not cover the majority of the population of a particular category and thus you get the wrong answer. Solution is to `sample' more men then you have a better chance of finding what you are looking for.
2006-07-06 07:57:37 · answer #9 · answered by huge001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like many say, a good man is out there, he just aint to your standards that you think a good man should be. Look in to a persons heart, not his looks and you can find a good guy.
2006-07-06 08:07:28 · answer #10 · answered by bigmonky2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women don't want the good men and pass them by without even giving them a second glance. Nice guys are not what women are really looking for or it wouldn't have taken me 25 years to find a woman who gave me chance and actually liked that I was a nice guy.
2006-07-06 07:55:52 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋