So i have met a special someone online......we chat in cybe and have even phoned eachother. She and I have agreed to meet in the very near future in person.
Recently (Today) she told me she slept with her ex.......because he played with her heart. This should not effect me but it did, I felt between jealous and betrayed.....why is this so?
Is this normal? We have not even met in person!
Am I a loser?
Any feedback is appreciated.
2006-07-06 07:49:25 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well i think that you need to look at several things here. arent we all human? dont we all make mistakes? shes not perfect so if that is what you were thinking we should pop that bubble right now. secondly we all have had weak moments and given in to things we shouldnt have. havent you? are you single? do you guys have an actual commitment? have you asked her to wait till you guys meet in person? there is a reason i am sure you feel betrayed, but also ask yourself this. does she care about you? she must a little for her to come clean with this. you guys havent met in person and are still online she could have just lied to you. obviously she cares something about you to be so honest with you. as for the jealousy how do you know she doesnt feel it to. maybe you are something special to her to and she is jealous just a little cuz you are some one elses and realisticly probably never will be hers.
2006-07-06 08:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by bubblyblonde002200 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It depends on how long you've been chatting and calling each other. I think if you've been doing this for awhile and formed an emotional bond with the intent to have a relationship, then it is perfectly normal for you feel betrayed.
2006-07-06 15:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loser is an attitude. And a cruel one.
Give it up.
Is it normal? Yes.
Is it wise to form emotional relationships online?
No.
Get off the PC and go out into life.
2006-07-06 14:55:00 · answer #3 · answered by Alexander Shannon 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
um... she kind of seems like the player here... why would she just volunteer that information.
also...what kind of girl is she to sleep with her ex "because he played with her heart"
I'd stay away from this one...because who's to say that her ex won't keep playing???
2006-07-06 14:54:05 · answer #4 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you are not a loser but she had no need to bring that up..seems she was trying to make you feel jealous to me...good luck
2006-07-06 15:49:31 · answer #5 · answered by SuNnY BlOnDe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋