Should i tell him bout my feelings? He is my boyfriends brother...and i find me and him kinda flirting. i dont know if he is just messin with me or not. i find myself thinkin bout him sometimes...i feel like i am cheatin with my bf when i do it, so should i just get it off my mind and tell my bfs brother that i think of him in that way...so we can resolve things and hopefully realize we are just curious and then both focus on our partners.
2006-07-06 07:48:18 · 14 answers · asked by dee m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont think you should tell him coz that may affect you realtionship wtih ur bf. Flirting is very common, its important that you restrict yourself and take that thought out of your mind.
2006-07-06 07:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Reverse the situation...if your bf found himself attracted to your sister, and they flirted some, what would you want him to do? Would it hurt your feelings?
If you are curious about the brother, break up with the boyfriend now...because you're obviously not all that into him if others are able to catch your eye...
If you dig your current boyfriend, then stop flirting with his brother (or anyone else)...consider how it would make you feel...focus on one relationship at a time, unless you are both free to date others...
2006-07-06 14:52:26 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep in mind depending on his relationship with his bro (your beau) he may just be testing the waters to see what kind of girl you are. let no boy lie to you, he WOULD go there if you let him....the question is are you REALLY interested or is it the chase and the attention that is making you feel that way? if you aren't then leave it alone. he'll get the hint if he really sees that you only want his bro. if he is persistent, which many guys are, then you may have to bring it to your bf's attention because it will only get worse and more uncomfortable. You may realize that you really do like him but I am willing to bet that if he got you, he'd let you go after a short while......because then the chase is over.
2006-07-06 14:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by ninalopez19 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a dangerous problem. many things could happen. one you leave your bf for his brother, and every time you go over to his house there's gonna be conflicts between you and you ex and between the brothers. two you tell the brother you have feelings for him and he doesn't and you have this uncomfortable feeling around both of them and you might loose them both. or three (more than likely not gonna happen) you have a threesome with the two brothers and live together happily unlikely to happen like i said. i suggest you bottle those feelings for him and forget about it is it worth possibly splitting up two brothers over these feelings. i wish you the best in luck
2006-07-06 14:56:56 · answer #4 · answered by captspankey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your true feelings, ask questions. there's nothing wrong with flirting, when single and uncommitted. If you have no interest in your current bf, make his brother your bf, unless he's too old for you, and just messing with u. YOu have to find out from him, if he is.
2006-07-06 14:52:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no..dont mess with the brothers. what will happen is that both the brothers will fight over you. that is horrible.dont tell your feelings to anyone. if you dont like your boyfriend then leave him. dont mess up his family.just what did you do with the brother? if it is flirting then stop it instantly. think about your boyfriend ,do you love him?if yes then forget the brother.
2006-07-06 14:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by atahsina 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell him anything. Stick to your boyfriend. If you are able to get along with your boyfriend then you are probaly able to get along with his brother. What you feel now is nothing. Telling your boyfriend will give him doubts and ruin the relaionship. you donot want that at all.
2006-07-06 14:54:07 · answer #7 · answered by michy0129 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want to stay with your boyfriend I would keep my mouth shut.
Just do yourself a favor and stop flirting back with him, be friendly, but not flirty.
2006-07-06 14:52:05 · answer #8 · answered by ksgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell him just deal with the feelings and if they r too strong then u have a problem
2006-07-06 14:53:02 · answer #9 · answered by franko T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you have a crush on him? i think its ok to have a crush on him but not to act on it. your not cheating on your bf if you are thinking about someone else. i would talk to his brother to see whats up.
2006-07-06 14:55:27 · answer #10 · answered by cutelil_bubble21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋