A SERIOUS question for woman?

Question

Why do woman most often say that they have to like a guy to have sex with him? If a woman is hot, most men could greatly dislike her and easily have sex. Woman say their has to be an emotional connection to get it on but for centuries woman as prostitutes(and not necessarily poor ones to survive) have been able to shut that so called emotion off to gain whatever. Not just prostitution, woman screw rich old guys(and young) they cant stand for money all the time. A woman on this site just stated , "anyone can seperate sex from emotion" in regards to another question. Can a woman have sex with a man for the shear pleasure of it and nothing else? No offense, I think most of you are great but can we stop the phoney(unless your in a serious relationship or marriage)emotional connection thing? Where am I wrong? And if Im right, have the honesty to say so. (Dont say "because men are pigs", you have a long history of your own jumping in beds)

Answer 1

I think that most women are wired differently than men. Women are all about emotions and connection and men are physical, raw creatures.

You're right that prostitution is the oldest profession and still going strong. Some women have found that they love money, sex, drugs etc etc more than holding themselves in high regard and having morals and self respect. That's the way i feel about it. I have strong morals and convictions and I will not sleep with someone that i don't love. I've gone 20 years without sex and I can continue if need be. Luckily I have a boyfriend now and I am all about pleasing him. =0P

Answer 2

I can only speak for myself and NO...NO...NO....I could not and would not have sex with someone just for the sheer pleasure of it....first off, there would be no sheer pleasure because I have to sincerely love or at least REALLY LIKE the guy, as in: personality and I would have to find him attractive....I know it may sound wierd to you but there are some girls out there like this....I'm not saying that there aren't a lot of the other type...because there are...in fact, I think MORE women are becoming promiscuous these days and actually acting more like men.....(that wasn't meant as a slam either) The older you get I think, the more you could care less about "just having sex" There is SOOOO much more....you want a companion and someone to share life with....if you can't have that, then there is less pleasure in just the sex part. I'm still looking for a decent guy who might actually think that I'm halfway special.....yeah right........like that will happen anytime soon...

Answer 3

I believe a woman can have sex for pleasure just as a man can. it all depends on her values and way of thinking. I had fun when i was in college, and i don't regret anything i did. If you are the type of person who regrets easily then i would say no don't do it, but if not then go for it have fun while you can just be responsible, and respective of yourself. Look at it this way, after your married have kids, settled down, will you be happy about your choices or will you regret that you didn't have a lil fun before you got more responsibility. If you can't just dive in bed with a man right away put a time restriction on it. 5 dates, 1 month, 3 months, that way you won't feel guilty if things don't go as you want them to.

Answer 4

I'd have to say that for some women this is possible, but it's been my experience that with time, and the more you are physical with someone, the more likely it is that you will develop strong feelings for that person. Is it possible to have sex without any emotions? yes, it is possible, but at the same time, be aware that for most women, that is a bonding experience and if there are no feelings to start with, most likely they will develop.

Answer 5

Not all woman are like that. The ones that want to have sex with anybody are either desperate or crazy. And some woman really want a serious relationship and are carefull about it.

Answer 6

Its not that we have to like them just be sexually attracted to them and yes we can have sex for the sheer pleasure of it sometimes its a lot funner that way.