OK. Here's my problem. 2 weeks ago my boyfriend of 2 years broke up with me. Our problems stemmed from me being too needy, insecure, and not trusting. I have realized that I screwed up big time. I know that I have some growing up to do, and I'm glad that we broke up because I want time to work on building my confidence and finding out what I want out of life.. But-I still love him. I want to fix me first, but how do I then repair the relationship?
2006-07-06 07:30:58 · 5 answers · asked by mmw108 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
DO your thing and let him do his... if it is meant to be it will be. take care of yourselk, i hear of people all the time meeting again later n life... it just happend to my best friend 6 years later. they both got married had kids and one day they ran into one another and have been together ever since.. so have a little faith
2006-07-06 07:35:55 · answer #1 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 9⤊ 4⤋
Does ur bf stil love you? If yes then you don;t need answers from others, he will be the best person to help you. If he does not love you any more, your relationship is severely damaged. work on yourself, give some time even to him and he might change when he sees a different YOU after some time.
2006-07-06 07:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're in a difficult spot. You need to work on you and the relationship at the same time. If you leave him alone, he will eventually move on. You should talk to him now. Tell him what you have decided. Be up front about it. Tell him what you'd like to change about you, what you need from him. Also, be sure to ask him to tell you what he needs from you.
2006-07-06 07:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Otis F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't. fix yourself, find someone else, and don't make the same mistakes twice. Learn from your past mistakes and take the lesson with you to your next relationship. And treat the next guy better than you did yor ex.
2006-07-06 07:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by johnsonjrod 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you can. Besides, the second time you do anything is never as fun as the first time,.... well... except for sex.
Learn, grow up and find someone else and repeat.
2006-07-06 07:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by handydaddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋