Should you chat alot online first, or does that lead to false impressions of people. Maybe read a profile, like it, and go meet up for a coffee to get to know each other?
2006-07-06 07:18:57 · 48 answers · asked by rdreader 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it is very dangerous.
2006-07-06 07:20:34 · answer #1 · answered by eboss_sweeps 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't use the term "online dating" because I believe you need to be in a person's presence to "date" them...I do use the internet to meet people though, and prefer chatting a bit and getting to know them before taking that face-to-face step (although on rare occasion someone will really spark my interest and we'll decide to meet after just chatting once)...
I think you can get to know someone online better (in many cases) than if you initially met face-to-face because the internet requires the two of you to communicate...in real life, people aren't forced to chat so there can be silences or distractions like movies, TV, etc that prevent people from sitting and having a discussion...
Profiles are great for initially attracting someone's attention...then you chat a bit (a few days, a week or more...whatever's comfortable) to see if there's enough mutual interest, to warrant a face-to-face meeting...if so, then go for it...if not, then nothing lost...
2006-07-06 07:24:08 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's dangerous and could be scary. Anyone can say they're anyone online. You could be 50 and just put a picture of your 20 year old nephew saying that it's you. Be aware. But if you do decide to meet them, go somewhere public and bring some friends. Also, advise the other person to do the same. If they aren't trying to hide anything they won't have a problem with it.
But I think it's better to meet someone offline. Relationships can only go so far over the phone or online and pictures aren't as exciting or new as seeing someone and getting to know them in person.
2006-07-06 07:24:49 · answer #3 · answered by meghanw1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Online dating is actually a good way of meeting new people. I've met several really nice and interesting people on webdate.com and I don't think there's anything wrong with it. It's a great way of gaining friends. I guess it depends on the site you signed up for. Chat more often with the person first. Get to know him/her better before anything else. Then who knows if things go really smooth, you might just have met someone for keeps.=D
2006-07-07 22:05:05 · answer #4 · answered by crazyangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it can be risky because you never really know who you are talking to online, but on the other hand, if you are limited to good guys or girls at you're work or where you live, online could be a great way to meet different people. make sure you go somewhere public on you're first date/meeting. but only meet with them if you are confident that they are telling the truth online. as you said, a cafe is a great place to see the person face to face and find out if they are the person they say they are online.
but as a tip, look around at home first to see if there is a love connection before going online.<3best wishes
2006-07-06 07:29:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I met my husband online. We spent about a month chatting and emailing before we met in person. We had some great, insightful conversations online which were only reinforced when we met, because we had both been totally honest. Of course, we met in a very public place, and after that, we began to talk on the phone. I had a rule that we had to talk on the phone every night for at least a week before he could take me on a date. Nine months later, we were married.
2006-07-06 07:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by ShineOnYouCrazyDiamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've sworn by the Internet. I don't have a problem meeting people, but we all know which head the majority of men think with (NOT ALL). It's a good way to connect, chat and then meet in person. Gives you a way to feel them out and shows a side of the person not ordinarily shown. In my opinion anyways.
2006-07-06 07:22:46 · answer #7 · answered by stepmomster22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chat a few times, then meet up for coffee... The longer you talk online, the higher your expectations get.
2006-07-06 07:21:24 · answer #8 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should chat a long time. That way if they tell some lies eventually you will catch them. You will also have a better understanding of them and know if you would like to meet them. If they don't have the patience to chat for a while then you don't need to talk to them.
2006-07-06 07:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by nastaany1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've tried it and had success with it. I only used verified dating sites, not open sites like myspace which can be dangerous. After i check the profile, I usually chat first and then after awhile meet them in crowded place etc. You just gotta be smart about it and trust your instincts.
2006-07-06 07:24:52 · answer #10 · answered by superflygurl123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe you should chat 2 them as much as u need to to realize what that person is sayin the truth or false. you can meet up with them if u fully trust them but the best way would be to take a friend along with you just to be safe cuz you never no. whatever you do try to do it the safe way and you will not have to worry bout anything.
2006-07-06 07:21:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋