I took a beautiful coworker out to dinner and dancing. We ended up making out ( I was going to be happy with just a kiss ) at her house but she wouldn't let me go any farther. So we made out some more then said goodnight. The next day everything was cool and I invited her to my place for dinner sometime. Now she acts like I'm the last person she would want to date. What happened?
2006-07-06 07:03:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her, not us. If she refuses to say, consider that a lesson not to mix business with pleasure.
2006-07-06 07:06:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you bugging her as in calling or bringing it up to much....Maybe someone just told her something about you or your past....For sure it's not the kissing otherwise she wouldn't have messed with you the 2nd time.....
Hmmm
It could also be that she's scared that you might be moving too fast or that she just want's to be cool and not let you think that if she goes to your house that you and her are an item.
It could be a number of things you just have to talk to her about it...
Let her know you had a good time that night and noticed that she had different feelings the next day did you do something wrong.....Good Luck
2006-07-06 14:09:03 · answer #2 · answered by Mary 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she felt no chemistry on her end when y'all made out! I went out with a guy once and totally liked him had a good time and everything but as the night ended we started kissing and made out a little and I felt like I was kissing my brother or something...I just totally just lost interest in him.
2006-07-06 14:08:32 · answer #3 · answered by hamc322 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would seem that she's decided not to pursue a relationship with you past work. Why? You'll have a hard time figuring that out, only she knows why. I wouldn't take it personally if you can help it. I would give her lots of space and not pursue anything with her anymore. If you keep trying, it only makes the situation worse.
2006-07-06 14:08:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your co worker was em brassed by how she acted on the night of the date.why not ask her too meet you over a coffee break and discuss both your feelings.Honesty is the key to success in love.
2006-07-06 14:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by starrygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she found out something about you, something you might have been hiding.
Maybe she was drunk when she was making out with you, so now she can't remember anything.
Maybe she has a husband and he found out.
I don't know. It could be anything. ASK HER!!!!
2006-07-06 14:08:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she thinks you were going too fast too soon,( your statement says that you would be happy with a kiss but in the other sentence she wouldnt let you go any father. )
2006-07-06 14:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by Jew_el 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may have decided that you are not the one for her or she found someone she likes better.
2006-07-06 14:07:35 · answer #8 · answered by katana_ryoko 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got used
2006-07-06 14:09:01 · answer #9 · answered by dog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she used you sorry happens to alot of people
2006-07-06 14:06:22 · answer #10 · answered by cookiemonster7985 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋