2006-07-06 07:00:31 · 14 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Paying the bill.
2006-07-06 07:04:26 · answer #1 · answered by Answer King 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for women, the worse pain the first time & a lot of other times, is because the women is not ready yet. By that I mean you are not aroused enough, therefore "dry" is the best way to describe it. You may even want to use some KY jelly, or another brand that lists water as it's first ingredient!! It takes a woman longer to get ready & aroused, most men don't need a lot of time! They seem to get aroused way too fast for the woman. I really don't think men feel pain, unless they get kicked there!! If it is really the first time, a woman feels a bit of a jab, but it goes away as fast as it came on. I pray the man lets you take your time to be ready so it can be enjoyed by both!! Also to be safe, go to the bathroom after to avoid a urinary infection, also known as a UTI !! They are more painful than first time sex!!
2006-07-06 14:17:13 · answer #2 · answered by like2talk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What will make things go a lot smoother for the first time is to take your time. Set the mode in a nice quiet place. Start off with some foreplay. Don't just get right to it.
2006-07-06 14:06:51 · answer #3 · answered by Q~T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The man doesn't hurt at all. Women feel some stretching pain.
2006-07-06 14:02:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
man doesnt get hurt in anyway but the woman may experience pain as it is the first time the hymen breaks..
2006-07-06 14:04:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure there is a rule for that. I have had some first experiences and I have never had any pain and never been told of any pain from any of my partners that was not asked for.
2006-07-06 14:07:33 · answer #6 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha, the man doesnt feel anything besides pleasure, but its painful for the women
2006-07-06 14:04:38 · answer #7 · answered by pbvale321 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your pride and dignity...depending if you thought you were having sex for the first time with the right person.
2006-07-06 14:05:23 · answer #8 · answered by Curious George 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dunno i honestly dont think men feel pain..women will cuz u have something going inside u and opening surfaces that werent opened much before....women have thatw onderful lining that can "pop" when she first has sex and thats what hurt that thing breaks and u bleed..but if u use tampons and stuf fit cud already be penetrated.....
i dunno some people feel no pain and others do, some girls i know got cramps during sex and felt like bloated after wards..who knows its all based on u personally.
2006-07-06 14:04:37 · answer #9 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that they've both got partners and their actually family :o(
2006-07-06 14:05:11 · answer #10 · answered by BadSanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋