Last time I talked to my boyfriend he was a jerk! He said something and I was really hurt! but I didn't break up with him! I have been talking to his friend and his friend said that he wasn't himself last time he talked to him but he didn't say anything mean to him either! So is it me? Am I his problem or is something else going on? I really like him but he reallyl hurt me! All my friends are pressuring me to break up with him but I just don't know I really do care about him! but I just don't know if he cares about me!! What should I do?
2006-07-06 06:48:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this one is a hard one to answer because dont think its you he's upset about, it could be his home life, or family and friends. if you ask me if your having problems you should never bring the mood and them around your boyfriend/girlfriend and or loved ones, it brings every one down with you so maby you can ask him about it, if he gets even madder you should't hang around some one like that. don't mean to be nosey or anything but a guy should never be mad at his girlfriend/wife... ( dont break up with him because of what I said, it wouldn't be right.) if he is a good "friend" he would let you talk it over with him...
2006-07-06 06:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by jonbird1990 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he does care and absolutely made a mistake in saying what he did, he probably said it out of anger and being in a different state of mind...not every single thing a person says shud be taken literally and to heart..ppl are allowed to make mistakes and thats where he has to beg for ur forgivenss lol. MOst important point dont listen to ur friends all the time....if u listen to them and break up with him u might regret not listening to your true feelings and just taking their advice..u need to tell ur bf he hurt u with what he said and have him assure u he absolutely did not mean it. If you really care for each other then only listen to ur heart! good luck.
2006-07-06 13:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by ♥ YaHabibeDisney ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't no I the last time I acted like a jerk to my girlfriend it was because I was really stressed out with life but then I told her that I was sorry so you dump him if you like or you can stay with him ether way you think about what you are doing before you do it
2006-07-06 13:54:42 · answer #3 · answered by Mark C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a bad day. It isn't necessary to break up with someone becuase they said something hurtful once. It's definitely worth talking to him about it. If this becomes a reoccuring event, then that will be a different situation. But try to talk to him about it first.
2006-07-06 13:51:58 · answer #4 · answered by q2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone cares for you, they will NOT deliberately hurt you. You may be the problem. He might want to dump you and not have the balls to do so. Perhaps he thinks if he mistreats you, you will break up with him and it will not be his "fault".
If he makes you unhappy how can you really care so much for him?
2006-07-06 13:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confront the guy and find out what was going on. Don't be accusatory, but let him know how much he hurt you. If he apologizes and explains what was going on with him, it's all good. If he keeps treating you badly, cut him loose.
2006-07-06 13:51:23 · answer #6 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and every body else from what it sounds like. He sounds like their is a broom stick stuck very far up his yahoo! and needs you to probe the problem out of him. What ever you do don't run from the situation, confront it. Believe me my fiance does to me all the time and I find out I was wrong, which is very hard for us guys to believe.
2006-07-06 13:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reality check: no one is perfect.
Guys will get pissy if you dont give them their guy time. Guys like to be needed, but they dont like it when you are needy. Dont let a guy walk all over you, but remember that when you are having a bad day, you would want a little slack too.
2006-07-06 13:52:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when we like some one . there must a strong reason why we like them. if that is the case. donot just break up. go down to him and talk to him. and get to know everything he feels abt u.
2006-07-06 13:51:23 · answer #9 · answered by Suresh Reddy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to care for your slef fristof all . and dump him.have some resecpt and just find someone else .he doesnot resecpt you at all.life is to short for jerks like that.
2006-07-06 13:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by purpal2002002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋