I don't believe that debating will change anybody's beliefs. All this causes is arguements. It will make people who believe different ways harder to reach. I suggest to let the lifestyle we live do the talking not our mouths. Save our words for the real questions to help others in need. Most the questions here are to start a conflict. Lets try to ask questions that better OUR lives not tear OTHERS down.
2006-07-06 06:37:06 · 14 answers · asked by GodsHolyFire 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I agree with your question completely. However, taking the question in bold print literally, we shouldn't try to change others beliefs unless they indicate they would like some help with it. Otherwise, you're going to end up with all those nasty messages about "shoving religion down every body's throat." Man I loathe that phrase. I'll finish up here by saying that I think many people would benefit just by reading the last line of your note.
2006-07-06 06:46:25 · answer #1 · answered by Rollover Mikey 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Your question is not the one you want answered. You want to know WHY people try to change others' beliefs. The quick answer is to either save or damn their souls.
To answer the original, you have to use the source of their beliefs against itself. Find basic contradictions and inconsistencies that cannot be resolved, then challenge them to prove you wrong. After shaking their world to the core, invite them to explore your belief system and see if it's a better fit.
2006-07-06 14:51:11 · answer #2 · answered by ERIC G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree. I do think that a healthy, non-judgmental, non-prosletizing discussion of religious philosophies can be interesting, but only when all parties WANT to have the conversation. And you MIGHT give someone some food for thought in that setting. But usually people are of the "my way or the highway" way of thinking when they discuss religion and that accomplishes nothing except alienation.
2006-07-06 13:43:20 · answer #3 · answered by Meredith L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm totally with ya!
Faith is something that people feel, not something that people gain thru argument. Certainly we can learn about something new, but that doesn't mean that learning the info will change how we feel.
Do unto others as you would have them do unto you...For me, this means letting everyone pray in the way that is meaningful to them.
2006-07-06 13:42:00 · answer #4 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about not trying to change peoples beliefs? Is it so hard for you to except not everyone wants to think the same way you do?
2006-07-06 13:43:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't change someone's belifes. You can influence what they believe or how they believe, but for them to change their beliefes, they must first want to change. They must be seeking something or some knowledge to be open to change. The best way to influence someone's beliefs when they are open to change is to SHOW them and let them SEE it in you. Seeing is believing and if you are truely secure in your beliefs, it will show.
2006-07-06 13:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by meow63 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This site is about asking questions and giving answers or opinions. If they conflict with you world view well you could always go back to myspace.com
2006-07-06 13:40:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If not for the arrogance lacing your statement, I would agree. Perhaps you should entertain the notion that another person's beliefs are just as valid and deserving of respect as yours are.
2006-07-06 13:41:49 · answer #8 · answered by Miss Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bu wisdom.when you are arguing with someone don't tell him you are fault but give him your point by asking him questions that would make him think better and will change his beliefs it depends on how god you are try it.
2006-07-06 13:43:52 · answer #9 · answered by maha z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well said.
2006-07-06 13:43:03 · answer #10 · answered by private_footballfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋