Heres another one, about another girl...?

Question

Theres this one girl, back from Cali (i live in AZ btw) I call her all the time, we were best friends till like the 11th grade and we kinda took a break from each other on 12th then i moved here, we hung out for 3 years, she asked me out once but i was too shy (or boyinsh, i guess...) she always gets jelouse when she saw me w/ other girls, just friends, ok just about everytime we talk on the phone she keeps talking about me taking her shopping, i'm afraid to get in a releationship w/ her because i think that she just wants me for my wallet, know what i mean? what should i do.... ignore her and not go... keep talking to her but meke an excuse for not going, or just go...

Answer 1

You might wanna keep this girl as a friend. Me personally, I could care less about how much money a guy makes because I have a job. I have my own money and I buy my own stuff.
You are'nt even with this girl and she's already talkin about you takin her somewhere to buy her something and trippin about you talkin to other girls that are just friends.
Head the warning signs first little brother. If you see that a girl is materialistic and jelous BEFORE you two even hook up then that right there should tell you to leave her alone.
I'm not saying blow the girl off. What I'm saying is there's alot of time invested in this friendship and blowing her off would be just plain rude. You seem like an old enough dude to know exactly what you feel like you deserve in a girlfriend ( if that's what you're looking for ). You know or not if you want a materialistic chick, a jelous chick, a whiney chick, a dumb no substance chick ect.
Just know what you want out of another person and if she's not making that match then don't persue it. It's also good advice not to lead the girl on. If you know she's not what you want don't give her any idea to think that she is, you know what I mean?
I hope this helps you some. Best of luck little man.